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Valentine’s Gift Ideas for HIM and HER!!

For elementary school, Valentine’s Day means giving handwritten cards and conversation hearts to your crush. Every couple loves to exchange personalized notes and sweet gifts, this year do something different. Though every gift will bring memories with it, but think of a gift that your loved one can cherish for years to come. February 14th is the perfect time to show them how much you care.Valentine’s Day gifts can be sensitive depending on what type of relationship you’re in— did you just start dating? Have you been together for years? That’s why we’ve come up with a diverse mix of cool and budget-friendly Valentine’s Day gift ideas.
You might be confused as in what to get for your boyfriend or girlfriend. We are here for you. We have rounded up some beautiful, romantic and sweet gift idea that your Valentine is guaranteed to fall in love with.
Take a sneak peek at some of our favorite Valentine’s Day finds…
We have a few gift ideas for HIM and HER both.

For HER

You are sure to find something special for your sweetheart, from delicate jewelry for the leading lady in your life to heart-themed cookware.

1. The little gift box of hearts
Those darling heart bowls are perfect for her kitchen. She will remember you whenever she eats her favorite cuisine in it. Hand-carved gift box set gives back made just for your valentine.

2. Italia Lace Thong and Candle Set
If you’re opting for lingerie this year, get her something that will make her look and feel good. Choose bright colors like pink, orange which she will definitely love. You can complete the whole set with scented candle.

3. Heart pillow of soft fur
The soft fur heart pillow will cuddle her up on the couch. What could be better than a gift that she can cuddle up to? She can keep it aside her always when at home.

4. Love Poems
If you are not good at it, it’s okay. Google has everything. Dedicate a romantic poem of some romantic writers in history like Donne, Christina Rossetti, E.E. Cumming, William Shakespeare etc., featuring love poems, love letters, love songs and sonnets. Gift her books if she loves to read, you can gift romantic stories or poems book. It’s definitely a collector’s’ set and a special gift.

5. Her favorite brand clutch
Gif t her cutest clutch. If you know she is fond of some particular brand, get her that. Keep the color pink, black or brown, every girls loves these colors.

6. Phone case
Dress up your girl’s techie. Gift her customized phone case. Customize it with your picture with her, or hearts, or love quotes or anything that she is fond of.

7. Those pretty rings
Tell your babe she has beautiful hands and they would look prettier if the ring is there. Jewelry is surely a girl’s best friend. If you can afford diamonds or gold, some pretty artificial jewelry are available that she will surely love.

8. Box of surprises
Doe she loves cosmetics? Of course she would. Prepare a box with a blend of her favorite shades of lipsticks, eyeliners, eyeshadow palette. You can add some perfume, bracelets, chokers etc. to it.

9. Custom Emoji Bracelet
Bring your words to art. This Valentine’s Day let it be a reminiscent of old-school friendship bracelets. Use beads and gold filled bracelet can be personalized with any name in any length.

10. Shopping Coupons
What can be more exciting than this? Gift her coupons to shop for whatever she wants.

For HIM

1. Button Cufflinks in Rose Gold
Rose gold button cufflinks are quite a dapper and your man would love them. Spread the rose gold love into your favorite guy’s wardrobe. He will love it. Moreover, boys usually forget to shop for this little stuff. It will be useful for him.

2. Analog Canvas Strap Watch
A muscular watch is a must! You can gift him a strap watch or Apple watch bands. Some guys are pretty fond of watches. Plus Apple watch band is a good way he can flaunt amongst his friends.

3. Couple mugs or Glasses
You can gift him the couple mugs, portraying you and him.You can get customized mugs with quotes and pictures. Or gift him wine glass with hearts.

4. Boxer Briefs
Give them their favorite boxer briefs. This Valentine’s be a little naughty.

5. Digital camera
If he loves clicking, get him one. It combines modern digital camera technology with a love of photography.

6. Leather Wallet
If he is looking for a new wallet, you can get him one. This is quite a common gift but yes is he needs one, you can gift him. It is perfect for everyday use.

7. The Love Journal
What can be more romantic than a handwritten note? Melt your man’s heart with your words and beautiful art. Write a Journal or a letter or a diary for him.

8. Picture Keychain
Oh, that is something sweet. Gift him a keychain with a picture of you both. He can keep it with himself for always and daily.

9. Astrology Love Gift Box
It is a fun way to show your guy that you love him! Customize this box with you and your partner’s signs for a match made in heaven.

10. Love Poems
Yes, guys too love such cheesy stuff. Write a poem or dedicate a poem for him. The most romantic and cute poem depicting both of you.
Choose a gift which enables him or her to be active. Make this Valentine a memorable one.

The Disco Lights and Lots of Dance – How They Met!!

Love is meant to happen by chance. When you least expect it, it comes to you then. When you are looking for it, you won’t find it in any corner.

How do you spell LOVE? You don’t spell Love, you feel it.

Samaira, a girl in her 20’s, is all set to explore the world. Living away from home, from parents, undergoing graduation, is a party girl and is a social butterfly. She has a couple of cool friends in college, she is pretty and intellectual and people love talking to her. She makes her friends go crazy and is there for them in all the times. You can’t let her go for what she is.

Yes, she is single. Not yet been into the cycle of relationship. She believes it is hard to find a man who will be there to make her smile whenever she wants. Samaira is looking for someone who can compliment her, her intelligence, her beauty and her craziness. She has couple of friends who are hooked up together and are like the “love birds” in the college.

Sometimes, she is pissed off to see the couples around, getting cheesy together and wishes for having one too. But she is happy with herself at times.

It was her senior friend’s farewell party, the girls squad decided to go clubbing. A group of six girls, all dressed up, makeup on and hair do done, are ready to rock the night. Smaira is wearing a little black dress, with red high heels. She looks adorable in the red lipstick and curly hairs. You can’t take your eyes off her.

They all reached the club, DJ night, drinks on and the disco lights. Everything perfect to look forward for the night. The girls are enjoying their drinks and talking and laughing. Samaira loves burning up the dance floor, all singing, all dancing, the girls are having fun.

Samaira bounces into a guy while she was making her moves. Arnav, a tall handsome guy, trimmed beard and short hairs. They bumped into each other and she took his breath away. She continued to enjoy the music and dance. He was still staring at her with those cupid eyes, she took him to the world of fantasies.

And he couldn’t resist to come near her. He asked her out dance with her. This was the time Samaira actually saw his face, he is indeed hypnotic. She couldn’t say no to him. They were getting along well, getting crazy about each other. Maybe she found her “Mr. Right”.

“You fall in love with the most unexpected person at the most unexpected time”.

It is weird that people fell in love in the first sight, but yea, they do.
They talked about each other and the part is over.
It’s the day of hangover, a new morning, a fresh start and a happy mood. But wait, Samaira is still in the memories of the guy she met in the party. Is Arnav thinking of her, too? Oh, Are they in love?
*Ping*, She gets a notification. Arnav G, sends you a friend request. Her heart skips a beat.

She was confused about starting the conversation with a guy she met in club. She waits for a little while and followed her heart. *Accept* , clicked. Samaira is very excited to talk to him, it was a feeling she never ever felt. No one made her feel the same, No one excited her the same and No one melted her heart like he did. There is no need of words if the hearts have already met.

Both of them started exchanging texts, calls, talking till late nights and even till morning. She was getting addicted to him and found he was a genuine guy. Arnav asked her out for the first date. She was shouting in the room of her hostel, bursting with excitement, looking for what to wear on her first date with a guy so handsome.
They met in a cafe, she is in blue jeggings and hot pink crop top and high boots. She is pretty. He is waiting there, in blue denims and white shirt, she gives him that smile and blushed.
He brought flowers for her.

Arnav said, “ You look like my dream girl, so beautiful”.
She took the flowers, and blushed.
A beautiful date, a start of a beautiful relationship that when they know each other well, going with each other the way they want to.
She had a lot of things going in the back of her mind. They talked for a while, talked about their childhood, talked about each other’s present, past and future, laughed together, had coffee, and he dropped her back to hostel.
Samaira is discussing with her friends, about her first date. “He covers ups everything in my checklist for my partner”, said Samaira. She is very confident about him and is ready to get along with him for the whole of his life.
*Ping* Arnav, “Ï love you, Samaira”.
Samaira,”I Love you too, Arnav”.

And, it’s been 1 year and four months they are dating each other!
Magical things happen, just wait for the right time. Love happens in the most surprising of the ways. Endorse the idea of love at first sight.

“Sometimes when you least expect it, good things happen”.

20 Tips to Stay Happy in Your Long Distance Relationship!!

“The longer you have to wait for something, the more you will appreciate it when it finally arrives.”

Relationships are beautiful, but there will be times when long distance sucks. Like really! And the only person you need at that moment to make you feel good is the person you can’t be with.
Feel the emotions of every moment; do whatever you want to at that moment. Do not keep your feelings inside you.Let yourself be in that moment and know that it will pass. There are good times, there are bad times! Struggle to deal with every situation.
Do you feel like your relationship is not like what it used to be?
Maintaining a relationship requires determination from both sides. But when the couple lives miles apart, keeping a romance going becomes even more arduous.
It is not going to be easy, the long distance make things unachievable. Things will get complicated, you will feel lonely, sad and depressed. At the same time, the extra distance makes the little things extra sweet like eating together, holding other person’s hand, walk together, everything appears sweet. These things mean so much more in a long distance relationship.
To help you energize your relationship, these 15 tips will help to improve virtually any relationship. These tips are the key ingredients that go into making a good relationship work.

1.Avoid excessive communication

You do not have to communicate 12 hours a day to keep your relationship going. Do not be over possessive. Communication is important but it doesn’t make sense that to compensate for the distance, you need to communicate more. It might only make things worse and you would get tired of “loving.” It is just about teasing at the right moments and at the right spots.

2. Good morning and good night

Make sure that you always say goodnight and good morning, even if your partner is busy, just drop a text. This is important to convey to your partner that you remember them when you wake up and when you go to bed.

3.Trust

Trust is important. You need to seriously trust this person. Constantly questioning them will frustrate them and make things worse.

4. See it as an opportunity.

“If you want to live together, you first need to learn how to live apart.” – AnonymousThis is like a test of your love for each other. Do not bring negative thoughts like you are getting apart, long distance relationship is pulling you two apart. Take it as an experience that both of you will be bound together even stronger maybe later.

5. Set some ground rules for expectations

During this long distance relationship, both of you need to be clear with what you expect of with each other. Set some ground rules so that none of you is hurt and expectations are left behind. For instance, are you two exclusive? It’s better to be open with each other about all the things that comes to you.

6. Make an effort

Some of us are lazy, more laid back than others. If you are tied together in a ‘relationship’, you need to show the efforts. You contact needs to be regular. Calls, texts, skyping,emails etc. will all make the other person feel wanted. If you feel you people are lacking in something, talk to each other about it.

7. Talk dirty with each other

Undoubtedly, sexual tension is one of the most important things between couples. Sexual desire is a thing that will keep both partied from drifting apart. It will arise a sense of excitement. It is a biological need and it is an emotional one as well. Keep your other half excited by sending them naughty teasing texts and provocative descriptions. Sexy puns work pretty well too.

8. Share concerns

Always share concerns.Talk to ypur partner about every small thing that might be concerning you. The problem is not discussing, not sharing. The problem is huge if it is not discussed. When the problem mould, you will explode. Always share your issues and all worries.

9. Do similar things

Recommend each other books, TV shows, movies, music, news and etc. When you do the same things, you will get more topics in common to talk about. You will get to know more about each other. Even though you are living apart, it is good to create some shared experiences.

10. Accept struggles

There are several reasons you will have to live miles away from your partner. Do not let the reasons affect your love and your relationship. Accept each other’s work and struggle is the best way to keep your relationship secure and avoid arguments.

11. Keep track of each other’s social media activities

Be active on social media, like and comment on each other’s photos on Facebook and Instagram. Tweet each other. Tag each other. Share things on each other’s walls.These things will keep you involved into each other.

12. Stay positive

To keep your relationship alive you need to be constantly passing positive energy to each other. You may sometimes feel lonely, it can be painful to wait around. But just keep on pushing each other by reminding that the fruits at the end will be sweet. Be thankful that you have someone to love and someone who love you back and cares for you.

13. Video-call whenever possible

Yes, it can make everything alright. Looking at each other is important. Show them what you are doing, where you are etc.Do it whenever possible. This is the most important part in a long distance relationship.

14. Make plans

It might not be possible to meet up in the next few days, but do make plans. Make plans with your partner, it can bring confidence back into the relationship and will keep your relationship alive. It is not compulsory to make big plans. You could plan a weekend together or just a skype date. Always look forward to something. This will even avoid your relationship to get bored up.

15.Gift a personal object for the other person to hold on to.

There is nothing stronger than a momento. Be it something small or big. A small pendant, a ring, a keychain etc. All the little things come attached with a meaning. The daily items we use carry a lot of memories with it. Physical things will help you hold on to something that will help you remember your love. Something so little can mean so much to a person.

So far from touching,
Yet their heartbeats are syncing.
One day, we’ll connect.
– Anonymous

How to Make Him Fall For You All Over Again!!

Some relationships start on a very romantic pace and end with a very dull note. Every relationship starts with enjoyment and spark, pampering each other and gradually it fades. It fades because the couple starts treating each other casually.Give your man the love and respect he deserves. It is easy for someone else to enter your life and stay, improving your life and relationship for the better.
If your man is not living up to your expectations, if he has started losing interest on you, follow these tips to try to get the same love back as before.
It isn’t that he doesn’t love you anymore, it is just he has started taking it in a casual way. So, these tips will help you to regain back the spark in your relationship. And girls, he is surely going to fall for you all over again.

Leave on a High Note

This especially works if you have both recently been through rough time. Leaving on a high note supports a solid, trustworthy and long term relationship.
When the couple bids of on unpleasant terms, there might be cases he will be left with various questions in his mind about whether the relationship is right for him. Don’t let this happen, instead take your leave cheerfully with hugs and laughter, so that it makes him miss you more. If for long you are not going to be with him, then make the leave in a way that he keeps missing you and fantasize about you.

Texting, Sexting & Snaps

You can easily talk to him, text him, video chat him and send him some sexy snaps. This will keep up the spice with your man and he will be more eager to be with you. It will keep him missing you.

Be Mysterious

Be a little mysterious in your ways. He will surely think of you once he leaves. Make him laugh, smile, hold him back in those sweet little gestures. Keep him excited always. Do answer his queries but do not provide the complete information.

Do not be always available to reply his calls and texts

Every girl makes this mistake of replying instantly when the special someone calls or sends a text. Maybe you think that if you make him wait too long, they may get busy in something else. But no,
when you reply quickly it shows that you are just waiting for his text. Let him chase you, don’t make it too easy for him. These little games may be silly but they really work. It will make them think about you and miss you.

Dress classy so that he wants to see all over again

It is easy to miss someone, but it requires a great zeal to make someone miss you. Making someone miss you demands being clever and have a reasonable idea. One of the way to make them miss you is the sense of dressing. If you are well dressed, it will attract your partner and create an unforgettable image in his eyes. This is a trendy and an elegant way to make someone miss you and a most common approach to be tried by all girls.

Spend time with friends and share your adventures with him

When you spend time apart from him with your friends or family, share your fun times with your man. He should know that you are having fun even without him. He may be happy you’re having a good time, but he’ll also become jealous. If you want to have the old flame back this is a good strategy. He will realize all the fun he is missing. He will want to have fun with you. Guys are more visual creatures so give him something good to look it and he will be desperate to take his next step towards you.

Do not accept any last minute dates

This is a secret way to make him miss you more. Never make it appear like you are at the edge of your seat waiting for him to plan a date with you. This looks like you have nothing else to do in your life other than him Not only does this make you look like the ultimate loser, he will start taking you for granted.
Do not accept the option of being a second plan.

Show Interest In Someone Else

Jealousy is the way out to bring him closer. Yes, girls make him jealous.
Jealousy is just a really useful strategy for making a dude think about you. Try to make him jealous by talking to some guy in your office or college or ex boyfriend. Talk to someone who has been flirting with you from a while. Give your attention to someone else.
Dress well, laugh, flirt, listen and generally display your interest in this person for all to see.

Blow Him Off

If he calls you, switch off your phone,keep yourself busy in other stuff, meet your girlfriend,watch movies etc, do not reply to his texts, keep him waiting so he realize what he has lost. If he treats you unkindly, give him the taste of his own medicine. Do whatever you have to in order to kill the urge to respond.
Try these strategies to make him realize your worth. He will realize how important you are to him and he cannot imagine his life without you. If it’s Sri not working, perhaps he’s just not that into you.
If he cannot live without you he will come crawling back with more respect, devotion and love than ever before.
Never lose hope if you love him. Make the efforts that you can!

Things You’re Overanalyzing in Your Relationship!!

So you’re relationship has been going great, you’ve been having a good time together. You both have completely fallen for each other.You both like each other like really. But you are not able to stop yourself from questioning everything.
Lovers, what are you doing? You are in a new relationship; you’re excited, happy and also worried, maybe because you’ve read one too many magazine articles about relationships. Many positive and negative things are in your mind, and you start overthinking and over observing your relationship.
Once overanalyzing starts, it’s hard to stop. Taking the most harmless instance and turning them into something insane, is where starts overanalyzing. Social media is another instance that has introduces into this bad habit.
There is only one happiness in this life: To love and be loved
It’s not productive, folks.Couples in long-term relationships do the same thing. Plenty of couples have a fight because of many meaningless issues. So take a deep breath before having an insight over the following instances. Maybe it will help to recognize the behavior and you would try to avoid it.
Saying, “I Like You.”
If you have been seen each other since just a while and you like the person, it shouldn’t be scary to say “ I like you”. Maybe your partner would also be feeling the same and would be hesitating to say it out.

Canceling Plans

If you have planned to meet and something important comes up, just say that you can’t come. You partner will understand if they are into you.

Saying What You Want

Give your suggestions or ideas on what you want to do, what you want to eat, where you want to go etc. A man expects his woman to have good taste. Feel free to tell your date what you want to do.

Being Straight-Forward about health issues

You’re both not in middle school, share with each other about any health issues. Girls should be open about their period cycle and a man should acknowledge it well.

If You’re Starting to Get Serious

Tell them that you miss them. Share with them how you feel, that you are thinking of them. They might be feeling the same.

Telling Them You Need Some Alone Time

If you want to be left alone, eat alone in a cafe, tell them. It happens with everybody and your partner would understand it completely.

Occasionally Mentioning an Ex

The emphasis is on the word “occasionally.” You can talk about your ex to make your love
jealous. But be careful not to spoil your relationship by frequently mentioning about it.

Asking friends for their advice

Your partner does something weird and you turn to your friends for an advice.

By this you are just making a mess. Stop asking all of your friends, it will just give a pile of conflicting opinions. You will be just left with confused mind. If you have to ask, ask one trusted friend and leave it at that.

Making assumptions

If your partner replied a bit late or just gave a small reply to your big message, do not think much. They might be stuck somewhere or busy. You are not made to judge every little thing.

What you are is what your partner wants

You must have done that? Have you ever changed something according to your partners
requirements? It’s actually pathetic, but everybody does it. And that’s silly, because they’re dating you for a reason: they like you, just the way you are.

Future always bother you

It is a little natural to think of the future. But do not get obsessed with it. Just live in the present and let things happen as they may. Of course, if you see no future, let them go. Other than that, just enoy the present; don’t worry about whether you have long term compatibility or not.

Changing Your Profile Picture

Public display of affection is just to tell your friends, ex and relatives that you need them to know that you have found someone. Changing your Facebook profile picture is a bit more subtle, and more adorable.

Introducing them to Your Family

Both the individuals in relationship should get them introduced to each other’s family. It would be quite weird in the starting and scary, but this is something that will bring you both closer to each other. Make them your family and priority.

Past relationships

You or your partner both would be having a past, particularly a long past or of short span. So what if you partner was on a serious relationship before. Do not overnalyze the things and trouble your mind spoiling your good relationship. What matters is that you trust the person now. Do not create issues by fearing of past relationships.Don’t freak out, lovers. Life happens. Love happens. The more people you date, the more overlap there will be. But once you are in a relationship give it your best. Do not stress your mind by overanalyzing useless things. Let it go and love utmost.

Signs Showing it is not LOVE, Instead just LUST!!

Love or Lust?
It is confusing
In the early stages of a relationship, it is difficult to find whether it’s love or just a
physical attraction. Both the feelings are different like a bliss, wonderful and joyous.

Make sure you know the difference between the two.

Love vs. lust

Think of lust as the kindling that starts the fire. A relationship built on lust burns fast anddies easily.

Love is like the larger of pieces of wood; it burns longer and steadier.Lust is the spark that could either gradually end, or burn into love. Lust is a feeling that
is quick and is temporary, while love comes slowly, but stay for long and permanently.
Love is an intense feeling of affection toward another person.

Two individuals will step a level from lust to love, when they get to see the whole individual and get past the “fantasy level.

If you do not understand your feelings, just use these signs to understand your mind better.

#1 Everything you do in a relationship, all sweet and romantic things, has a motive that will lead to the bedroom. The whole relationship just revolves around sex. The primary motive for being with that person is to have sex. True love is different. People in love value moments and experiences even if they are not liking it.

#2 Physical attraction is the most important, just looking good is paramount. You dress to the nines, you try really hard to keep in shape and always move out of the house like you jumped out of a centerfold. Lust ask for looking the best to remain attractive to the other person. While, Love doesn’t care if you go wearing out an old shirt or pyjamas. It is the inside heart that really matters.

#3 You look past their foolishness, when you’re in lust. You easily let go the issues that may turn into larger issues down the road. Love points out the mistakes. You love them, that is the reason you want them to be a better person. And if they love you, they’ll accept the criticism and try to be a better person.

#4 When you’re in lust, you say what they want to hear. You try to always please them and be at the safe side always. In love, you keep it real. You clearly say out what you do not like. In every relationship both partners have different views and opinions, that does not mean you are not a good match. You’re different people. And that’s okay. Have a healthy discussion and it will help to see situation from another perspective.

#5 You have an extra ticket to an awesome sold out concert, and he is the first person you think to take along then it’s love. If you think of him after the show when you’re sweaty, and want a quickie, it’s lust. You don’t get to have real bonding moments where you can know who they are.

#6 A couple in lust, do not really know each other. You maybe knowing their favourite color or food, but there is a lot more than these. The list is long. And in Love, you know small insignificant details. You know the whole story behind their favorite things. You know why they love it. These small, seemingly insignificant details are part of their identity. And you know all these little, because you are in love with him.

#7 If you go out in public, at public places, restaurants, cafe on regular basis, it’s love. If you prefer to spend the majority of your time with him in bed, it’s lust. When you desire only that one person, you know you are in deep romantic love. If you love him you will want to spend quality time together other than sex.

#8 If you avoid anything related to his family function you do not love him, it is just a lust. If you’re willing to go to every one of his families birthday parties just because he asked you to, it’s love.

#9 You focus more on the outside than inside. If you are stunned to see his every look, if you judge him from head to toe for how he looks and you wonder if you will be walking beside him how sexy it would be. If you think of tapping with him at the end of the night, it is definitely that one thing: Lust.

#10 You live in a fairy tale world where the other person is flawless. Being in lust dulls your judgment. A more stable relationship requires you to completely be into the person, so that the other person can know who you truly are—be it good or bad.

If you’re in lust, you tend to put up the bad side of the person whom your partner idealizes. You ignore the person’s negative characteristics and focus only on the qualities that fit your fantasy.

#11 You bumped into one another with a kiss and did not have a “friendship” stage. Most people in romantic relationships start out as friends. If you skipped the friendship period and brought it bed, you could be just in lust. To have a deeper relationship, getting into friendship is important, as it tests your compatibility, allows you to get to know each other.This type of relationship becomes the foundation of romantic love.
Love is a beautiful relation. Do not spoil it. Enjoy the roller coaster ride of self-discovery relating with someone for whom you lust. It will transform into love, if the chemistry is right. All the relationship to unfold naturally. Do not rush it. The more you bring love, passion and romance, the easier it will be to attract someone who shares those same qualities.

How Social Media Can be a Unfortunate for Your Happy Relationship!!

SOCIAL MEDIA, is great to be able to share pictures, status, thoughts, to be in touch with old colleagues, schoolmates etc. across the globe, bringing them into your world with a blink of an eye. It is required and nice to stay connected in our business society.

There is no question the Internet is enormously popular, convenient and a delightful way to connect with others. Many social media sites such as Facebook, instagram have about one billion users worldwide. Individual of all age groups have facebook accounts and there isn’t a day they miss to browse it. It certainly offers us an instant audience and attention. It can help fight feelings of loneliness.

Some people try to make new friends on social media. It has the ability to make relationships both easier and more difficult, to start new relationship and destroy the old ones. It can connect us when we are far away. But if it is causing problems in your life or relationship, try to try limit the use of social media when it comes to your relationship.

Do not share everything about your life there, it will lead to more issues. Let’s not allow social media to affect our relationships in a negative way. Use it but in limits, But, even so, there can be a huge danger in this kind of “connecting”.

Trying to connect through social media is actually counterproductive. Let’s see how social media will affect your relationship.

You lost the moment

What are you doing on social media? Sharing moments of all kinds, joy, friendship, beauty and humour. By engaging virtually on social media you lose the connection from your reality and the people in it. There is nothing more powerful than real life connections, no matter how we try to replicate it.

You need someone with skin to give you a smile, wrap their arms around us, or hold our hand in theirs. Real life sharing of moments involve the tenderness of a human embrace. When hiding behind the walls of

the online world there is no warmth, real life interactions have the potential of releasing a powerful warmth. When making a connection with real life people in actual is a way of replicating warmth to engage the world around us. Do not get so caught up in the digital world that you forget the power of physical. There is no happiness more than meeting the people in real and spending time with them.

Facebook can be a source of jealousy and anxiety:

The pictures shared on facebook, and other information can create jealousy, suspicion for couples. The facebook interactions should not be considered obvious as you do not know who is on the other side being involved, as you may not know some of your partner’s Facebook friends.

In some cases, the couples are anxious their partner may leave them, or generally don’t trust their partner. It is also responsible for creating negative feedback loop which, in turn, increases the chance of experiencing more Facebook-related jealousy. Though the partner is completely into you and totally loyal, but social media provides medium for partner interrogation, which may disrupt a person’s sense of privacy as well as the stability of the relationship. Facebook can make the situation much worse if you are already going through certain problems.

It’s addictive and self-absorbing

The pleasure that comes from experience and from people around you, you try to seek that through phone and internet. By continuous use of social media your brain starts functioning the similar way, it starts responding positively to freshness, that social media

offers in a constant stream of new interactions, new posts, and new pictures every second. Although it is known as the medium or tool to remain connected but it can make you feel isolated and obsessed over the response you are getting. Authentically connecting with others has numerous benefits but getting too much involved in it is associated with anxiety and depression.

We can lose our warmth

Have you heard of the tangible connection of one human being to another? That is absolutely required for the success of a relationship. If you and your partner are so much involved on social media, you lose the warmth, the warmth that comes from looking each other smiling in real, by getting involved in a good laugh.

We can lose our inhibition

There are a few things that you would never say out offline but you do say that when you are online. Every person has different quality, one person says whatever comes to their mind no matter the cost, while some have the ability to discern when to speak up and when to refrain. It is true that some things are just better left unsaid. But when we are masked behind the screen, it affects our inhibition, this virtual world, we feel empowered and in control. Slowly, we let our walls down. This lack of inhibition gives us the freedom to do things in the online world that we would never do in real life. This can have serious affect on our relationship, ruining it or isolating us from people we could have otherwise connected with. One should understand the impact of social media on itself and challenge themselves to interact with grace, wisdom and humility whether online or off.

True intimacy and connection can get lost

Social media is reliable and fantastic for many reasons but it is actually connecting you to the world for the sake of living, preventing us from experiencing true connection and true intimacy: real life. It is sometimes funny to see the status updates and stories that people share about every bit of their life, why are we on Facebook right now? Why aren’t we savoring the moment? Live in the moment and enjoy the moment with the

person you are with. In a relationship getting intimate is the root for happy relationship. And there is no chance of intimacy when you are involved in social media.

Don’t give in to the false intimacy that comes with social media and make time for the genuine intimacy.

Make time for the people around you. Here and now.

How to Make Your Relationship Magically Romantic!!

Despite of all the difficulties, romantic relationships are a fundamental component of our lives. “There is scarcely anything more difficult than to love one another.” – Rainer Maria Rilk

What is long-term passionate love?
Sexual intimacy
Shared affection
And happiness in life

Though this is the modern time and people are busy in their modern lives. Now people really do not expect a romantic relationship to be filled with diamond encrusted love hearts, constant, adoring kisses and sweet smelling flowers every day.


The generation is busier in visual and sensual touch time with their smartphones than with their partners each day. The expectations of romance are not high enough to nurture and maintain a healthy romantic relationship. But if you are not passionate and romantic with your partner, the bond that you both share can shrink.
So what happens if you feel your partner isn’t romantic enough? Do you miss the romance in your relationship?

Get romantic

Romance is not a one directional. Whether you’re a man or woman, you won’t receive romance, until you are equally involved in your relationship. You’re both responsible for how romantic your relationship is. If your relationship is not the way you want, you need to set the tone and give examples of what it is you desire. Romance is very important part of a relationship, you could say what you want and why, but it’s much more effective to show what you want. There are some gestures that will make your relationship exciting and romantic.

Have fun

If a couple is engaged in exciting and enjoyable activities together have greater relationship satisfaction. Couples who play together, stay together. Choose an activity with your partner that you’ve never done together before that would be of interest to you both, like dancing lessons, staying the night at a new town and exploring it, or indoor skydiving. Give them a all new experience.

Share a Secret Code

Choose a random word that will be used often in the conversation and ensure that every time someone uses it, you have to do a gesture like anything from a kiss to a lingering thigh stroke under the table.

Tell them what turns you on

Do not be a boredom, bring out something exciting in the bedroom. Tell your partner what turns you on. Do not be shy when it comes to sex. Let them know what you like, and encourage them to do the same.

Sweet Afternoon Treat

If you know your partner is having a bad day at office, call up a cafe or a restaurant and get their favourite food delivered with a sweet message. You can add a surprise to it, like dessert’s waiting at your place later.

Be fit & healthy

Whatever it is, nothing brings joy if you are not healthy and fit. Get your health checkup. Work out and shop for healthy foods together. Being fit and healthy will make you feel better about yourself — and improve your sex life.

Show appreciation for your partner

Does your partner know what you like the most about them? What you admire and what makes you proud. To build a romantic relationship you have to have an initial bonding along with encouragement and support to each other’s growth. Help your partner achieve his or her potential by constantly lifting their spirits up.

Be grateful for your partner

Expressing gratitude to your partner in a relationship predicts an increase in your relationship satisfaction. If your partner appreciates you, it seems to increase your confidence. Return the same gratitude, this will positively affect how much you feel committed to the relationship and you will do things to meet your partner’s needs.

Put it into practice

Let your partner know how much you value them. Say sorry and thank you whenever required, show them the gratitude you actually feel toward your partner, because this also makes a big difference. Tell your partner that appreciate having them in your life or what you would miss most if he or she were not in your life.

Laugh together

Be her/his best friend. If you want to invest in a relationship, be best friends.Do you remember all the fun things you did together when you were dating? Create some new memories to cherish.

Engage in PDA

Compliment them in public, when you are out with friends. Do not make out in public, but certainly show your love. Hold hands, hug, kiss and compliment each other. These little public displays of affection shows that you are proud and happy to be together with your partner.

Get a Sound Track

Pick your favorite songs that portraits your relationship and make them yours by playing them on romantic, sexy occasions.

Pray together

Spiritual intimacy is equally important as physical intimacy. Some couples are involved in sexual activity but are not intimate as they miss out on the soul. Pray together so that your soul unites keeping your love strong.

Give gifts

Give material tokens of your love. Pick up the right book, a special dessert, a piece of jewelry or clothing you noticed at the store. Leave a love note for them, or send them a random “I love you”. This will make your partner feel better about themselves and secure in your relationship.
To create a fulfilling life, it is the time create romance in your relationship. Have the fulfilling love life. Make them involved in your ideas and thoughts. Be liveli and your partner will never be able to forget you. Remember, it’s the thought that counts. Romance is more about chasing than getting what you want. Don’t wait until it’s too late to begin practicing these principles. Start today.
Love to get the same back.
Do not forget you are worthy and your relationship too.

Plan your Dream Honeymoon at these Beautiful Indian Destinations!!

One of the exciting part of getting married is the honeymoon. It is the first trip with your love. It is one of the memorable trip.
Romantic, isolated and dreamy – plan a honeymoon that both him, and you, will never forget.
Couples find it very difficult to select a place for their honeymoon. As there are numerous beautiful honeymoon places with variety of attractions and uniqueness, so it is quite confusing for them to pick the right one.
Discuss the type of honeymoon you each want, like cruising, enjoying a city tour, beaches or hill station, or lounging at a tropical resort. A perfect honeymoon requires a perfect destination. Make your honeymoon a special and an unforgettable one.
Here in this article, we have mentioned India’s all time best honeymoon destinations which attract married couples from everywhere. This will surely help you out to pick the one best honeymoon place.

Kerala

Kerala has been one of the top 10 honeymoon places in India for a long time. It is known for its natural beauty of backwaters, sunset and sunrise at beaches, hills of Munnar, popular tourist places like Cochin & Allepey, which make the honeymoon trip too romantic and unforgettable.
Most recommended places in Kerala are-

  • Munnar
  • Kumarakom
  • Cochin
  • Vagamon
  • Kollam

It gives a blend of experience of mountains and beaches. There are many beautiful resorts to choose.

Goa

Goa is one of the most beautiful honeymoon places in India. It is blessed with beauty of beaches, beautiful coconut plants surroundings, lush gardens, and the famous Portuguese buildings. Enjoy a romantic walk on the beach with your life partner, have romantic talks and fulfill all your dreams. You can enjoy the popular beach night parties, delicious sea foods, deep sea fishing, parasailing, and other adventurous sports which promise to make your honeymoon trip eventful.

Manali

Manali is a place for couples who’re looking for an ice-cold hill station to have some good time.It is all time favorite honeymoon destination for Indian married couples as well as foreigners. There are many adventurous sports like skiing, hiking, trekking,mountaineering, paragliding, river rafting, angling, and biking. You can find snow in Rohtang pass. The couple can have camps in kullu and visit Manikaran temple. Manali is the best honeymoon destination in North India and you won’t be disappointed if you stay here for couple of days.

Darjeeling

A beautiful hill station and a romantic winter honeymoon destinations in India. Famous for the pleasant cold climate, natural beauties of pine trees, tea gardens, local traditional market, and the most famous toy train journey. Darjeeling is one the most preferred place by newly married. However, do not miss Tiger Hills, which is famous for its panoramic view of the sunrise over the mountain of Kanchenjunga Himalaya.
There are also some others tourist spots where you should during the trip:

  • Batasia Loop
  • Rock Garden
  • Singamari Ropeway
  • Darjeeling toy-train Journey
  • Kanchenjunga Mountains
  • Peace Pagoda

Jaisalmer

If you want to have a royal honeymoon, spend your honeymoon in Rajasthan. This gorgeous city offers history, places, elephant and camel back rides and lots more. Other popular honeymoon destinations in Rajasthan such as Mount Abu, Bikaner, Jaipur, Jodhpur and Udaipur are equally beautiful. Udaipur – the ‘City of Lakes’, is a wonderful place to spend a royal exotic break together. The visit to this place will make your honeymoon once in a lifetime experience.

Andaman

Andaman is amongst the most trending honeymoon places in India giving the pleasure of sunny beaches,secluded islands and so many wonderful activities to make your holiday a memorable one. Andaman and Nicobar Island is the gateway of romance with the exotic environment. You can find top class hotels, tourist privacy, superior dining, and lot of activities. Honeymoon couples can enjoy here the underwater marine life with varieties of colorful fishes, water-skiing, sail boats, windsurfing, speed boats, flora and fauna. Some of the heart throbbing qualities are quiet and secluded beaches, Luxury hotels, Scuba Diving and Watersports, Historic Places, Museums.

Srinagar

Srinagar, is a beautiful place. The beauty of Srinagar is absolutely timeless. You will not get the pleasure of Shikara anywhere than here.Dal lake with your better half will bring a joy to your relationship and your first honeymoon with your love.

Ranthambhore


I wildlife sanctuary attracts you and your better half, do not miss the largest wildlife sanctuary in northern India to offer you the best experience. You will have an amazing trip with the fascinating wildlife safaris, tracing the beasts and time spent in the luxury camps. Best Experiences: Wildlife, Tiger sighting, Trekking, Jeep Safari, Elephant rides

Kodaikanal


This place has the year round a pleasant weather. Kodai is fondly called the ‘Princess of hills’’and newly married couples can make some wonderful memories on this little hill town. Enjoy a place that you can explore the utmost. Make memories and learn a little more about your partner.

Lakshadweep


Another popular honeymoon destination is Lakshadweep in India because of its unbeaten natural beauties of Island. It is also known for its sandy beaches, the ultimate view of blue sea, watersports, and sunbathing. If you are looking for a calm and romantic environment do visit this place on your honeymoon.
Some top recommended places where you should definitely visit-

  • Kavaratti
  • Agatti
  • Kadmat
  • Bangaram
  • Minicoy

Ooty
Ooty is one of the most beautiful and romantic honeymoon hill stations, situated at the hills of Nilgiri, in India. Well known as the ‘Paradise for Honeymooners’. It might be a perfect choice for those who want to be away from the crowd and enjoy some quality time.
When you are with the love of your life, any place seems to be filled with love and joy. Capture lots of memories by sharing the joy with each other by spending your honeymoon at these beautiful places.

Are you in a One-SIded Relationship? Tips to Fix it!!

It is quite difficult to find true love and commitment but most of us spend a good time in order to look for a comfort zone that only comes with a perfect relationship. There are times when couples are in relationship but there is not love, this is called casual relationship. Therefore a majority of the relationships end, as the two people are genuinely not being interested in each other but they are just trying each other out.
There are several reasons of being disinterested in a relationship, like loneliness, set ups, peer pressure, social stigma, social status, sextimacy, because all your friends are dating, and then my personal favorite, and then the need to have someone that you can call girlfriend or boyfriend.
Here are a few signs showing you are in one sided relationship
When you’re in love, it’s easy to be fooled by the signs of a one-sided romance. So if you have a feeling that you are at a risk of being in one sided battle here are a few things to keep an eye out for:

You initiate most communication

You are the one sending messages, making phone calls and putting in efforts to hangout and make plans to meet throughout the week. And when you stop making such efforts, there would be several days spent exchanging a single word. If you see such signs in your relationship, chances are you’re in a one-sided love affair. You should get out of it now, if you always have to be the first one to make contact.

He or she never returns the favor

If your partner never hesitates to ask favors of you to sacrifice your time and energy, but when it is their turn they never seems to have the time. Your partner will talk about their prior engagements or say they are busy with work. Your partner might say that he or she has too many other obligations to look after, and may object by saying that your expectations are too high. They never return the favor.

He or she always chooses his or her friends over you

Your partner doesn’t invite you up when they feel like going out. And when they feels like spending a night in, you don’t get an invite to that, either. If you try to complaint on this issue you are accused of instigating the same fight over and over again. Your partner may actually prefer to call their friends and spending time with them.

You apologize for things you shouldn’t apologize for

In a one – sided relationship the partner usually try to make their other half feel bad for things that are no reason to worry over, like getting emotional, or needing to talk about something that’s been on your mind. A healthy happy loving relationship will bring happiness into each other’s lives and will make you comfortable when you feel down. The partner needs to be with each other when life is not carefree.

How to Fix a One Sided Relationship

There is no magic formula to find balance in one sided relationship. Every relationship is different and have different understanding. Every person is different. To remain one step closer to happiness in relationship, discover the reasons and the root causes of your one sided relationship and try to fix it.

If you or your partner is not carrying that weight in the relationship, equality and respect are values that need to be learned and applied. Finding balance in a one sided relationship is hard work for both partners.
Is your partner ready to commit to a healthier relationship?
Are they willing to see how your relationship is one sided and what they can do to help fix it?
You can’t fix a one sided relationship by yourself. They have to be willing to hear your perspective and work towards making healthy changes in his life.

Get your feelings sorted out

Are you struggling with some emotions? How is the feeling of being in one sided relationship? Go beyond “mad” and “taken advantage of.”
If you feel sad, scared or frustrated, you might feel anxious talking to your boyfriend or girlfriend about fixing your relationship. Maybe you feel confused because you don’t know when to end a relationship. The solution for all this is to first have a clear view about your feelings. The more you know about your feelings, the better you can communicate your feelings. If you don’t know how you feel about your role in a relationship, then get quiet. Take time to get in touch with your feelings. Think about
your feelings, listen to the small voice, and follow its guidance on how to fix a one sided relationship. Talk to your partner about your feelings.

Tell your partner about how it feels to be in a one sided relationship

When you are in one sided relationship you might feel upset because of many things and unfulfilled expectations, because of lack of communication due to issues at work. Do not be afraid to tell your partner how angry, frustrated and hurt you are.
Learning how to fix a one sided relationship is rarely that easy, but it does show the potential power of talking calmly to your partner. If your partner loves you, they will care for your feelings of being in a one sided relationship. Develop a healthy communication.

Find ways to blossom in your life

One of the easiest way is to grow yourself. Don’t let your partner be the focus of your life. Learn your importance, you are creative, smart, beautiful, and strong! You deserve to be treated special than to be in a one sided relationship that makes you unhappy and insecure. Take a healthy interest in your own life and self. What are you passionate about? Who do you love spending time with?
If you fix your relationship, it will be one of the major reason for your happy life.
Keep spreading love.