Love is meant to happen by chance. When you least expect it, it comes to you then. When you are looking for it, you won’t find it in any corner.
How do you spell LOVE? You don’t spell Love, you feel it.
Samaira, a girl in her 20’s, is all set to explore the world. Living away from home, from parents, undergoing graduation, is a party girl and is a social butterfly. She has a couple of cool friends in college, she is pretty and intellectual and people love talking to her. She makes her friends go crazy and is there for them in all the times. You can’t let her go for what she is.
Yes, she is single. Not yet been into the cycle of relationship. She believes it is hard to find a man who will be there to make her smile whenever she wants. Samaira is looking for someone who can compliment her, her intelligence, her beauty and her craziness. She has couple of friends who are hooked up together and are like the “love birds” in the college.
Sometimes, she is pissed off to see the couples around, getting cheesy together and wishes for having one too. But she is happy with herself at times.
It was her senior friend’s farewell party, the girls squad decided to go clubbing. A group of six girls, all dressed up, makeup on and hair do done, are ready to rock the night.
Smaira is wearing a little black dress, with red high heels. She looks adorable in the red lipstick and curly hairs. You can’t take your eyes off her.
They all reached the club, DJ night, drinks on and the disco lights. Everything perfect to look forward for the night. The girls are enjoying their drinks and talking and laughing. Samaira loves burning up the dance floor, all singing, all dancing, the girls are having fun.
Samaira bounces into a guy while she was making her moves. Arnav, a tall handsome guy, trimmed beard and short hairs. They bumped into each other and she took his breath away. She continued to enjoy the music and dance. He was still staring at her with those cupid eyes, she took him to the world of fantasies.
And he couldn’t resist to come near her. He asked her out dance with her. This was the time Samaira actually saw his face, he is indeed hypnotic. She couldn’t say no to him. They were getting along well, getting crazy about each other. Maybe she found her “Mr. Right”.
“You fall in love with the most unexpected person at the most unexpected time”.
It is weird that people fell in love in the first sight, but yea, they do.
They talked about each other and the part is over.
It’s the day of hangover, a new morning, a fresh start and a happy mood. But wait, Samaira is still in the memories of the guy she met in the party. Is Arnav thinking of her, too? Oh, Are they in love?
*Ping*, She gets a notification. Arnav G, sends you a friend request. Her heart skips a beat.
She was confused about starting the conversation with a guy she met in club. She waits for a little while and followed her heart. *Accept* , clicked. Samaira is very excited to talk to him, it was a feeling she never ever felt. No one made her feel the same, No one excited her the same and No one melted her heart like he did. There is no need of words if the hearts have already met.
Both of them started exchanging texts, calls, talking till late nights and even till morning. She was getting addicted to him and found he was a genuine guy. Arnav asked her out for the first date. She was shouting in the room of her hostel, bursting with excitement, looking for what to wear on her first date with a guy so handsome.
They met in a cafe, she is in blue jeggings and hot pink crop top and high boots. She is pretty. He is waiting there, in blue denims and white shirt, she gives him that smile and blushed.
He brought flowers for her.
Arnav said, “ You look like my dream girl, so beautiful”.
She took the flowers, and blushed.
A beautiful date, a start of a beautiful relationship that when they know each other well, going with each other the way they want to.
She had a lot of things going in the back of her mind. They talked for a while, talked about their childhood, talked about each other’s present, past and future, laughed together, had coffee, and he dropped her back to hostel.
Samaira is discussing with her friends, about her first date. “He covers ups everything in my checklist for my partner”, said Samaira. She is very confident about him and is ready to get along with him for the whole of his life.
*Ping* Arnav, “Ï love you, Samaira”.
Samaira,”I Love you too, Arnav”.
And, it’s been 1 year and four months they are dating each other!
Magical things happen, just wait for the right time. Love happens in the most surprising of the ways. Endorse the idea of love at first sight.
After the incident she was shocked and refused his proposal for 6 years. Later she realized Jahangir’s love for her and consented to marry him. She was also his chief consort, and later ruled for almost 20 years!
She was upset and wrote a letter to Mirza to come save her. Mirza came to rescue and carried her away during the mehandi ceremony. But this was not the end, Sahiba’s brothers chased them and Killed Mirza with a sword. When Sahiba saw this she killed herself with Mirza’s sword and the lovers became immortalized in folk history.
Bajirao fell in love with Mastani after he protected Mastani’s father family and kingdom. He married her in spite of being married to Kashibai, and took her in as second wife. When later during the war, Bajirao was sick during a military campaign in Khargon, and died, Mastani was broken and she immediately committed suicide by consuming poison.
She took an earthern pot to swim across the river but her sister in law replaced the baked earthen pot with an unbaked one. Because of the unbaked clay pot she drowned in the river. Seeing her drown, Mahiwal also jumped in the river and drowned.
It affected him both emotionally and physically. But at the same time it was an inspiration for him. He build one of the world’s greatest architectural masterpieces that was a final resting for his beloved wife. After a little while, he got I’ll and was thrown by his eldest son. The late of his life he spend in house arrest and was buried next to his wife.
One day he accidentally reached Barker instead. Mumal was waiting for him and in the meanwhile her sisters dressed up to entertain her. Mahendra was on his way to Jaisalmer and in the meanwhile the girls slept. One of Mumals friends dress up as men slept with her in bed. When Mahendra saw this he felt disgusted and went back.
Salim’s declared a war against akbar, his father, Akbar won the war. To save Salim, Anarkali sacrificed herself by being entombed alive!
After years of meeting secretly they were caught and he was forced to leave. He went and became a Jogi and renounced the world. Meanwhile Heer got married to Saida Khera. After a few years the Jogi Ranjha appeared up in Heer’s village again. They ended up with each other but Heer’s jealous uncle poisoned the food at their wedding day which killed Heer. Ranjha then purposely ate the poisoned food to commit suicide alongside Heer.
At the same time, the extra distance makes the little things extra sweet like eating together, holding other person’s hand, walk together, everything appears sweet. These things mean so much more in a long distance relationship.
Do not be over possessive. Communication is important but it doesn’t make sense that to compensate for the distance, you need to communicate more. It might only make things worse and you would get tired of “loving.” It is just about teasing at the right moments and at the right spots.
This is important to convey to your partner that you remember them when you wake up and when you go to bed.
Constantly questioning them will frustrate them and make things worse.
will all make the other person feel wanted. If you feel you people are lacking in something, talk to each other about it.
Sexual desire is a thing that will keep both partied from drifting apart. It will arise a sense of excitement. It is a biological need and it is an emotional one as well. Keep your other half excited by sending them naughty teasing texts and provocative descriptions. Sexy puns work pretty well too.
When the problem mould, you will explode. Always share your issues and all worries.
Accept each other’s work and struggle is the best way to keep your relationship secure and avoid arguments.
Tweet each other. Tag each other. Share things on each other’s walls.These things will keep you involved into each other.
You may sometimes feel lonely, it can be painful to wait around. But just keep on pushing each other by reminding that the fruits at the end will be sweet. Be thankful that you have someone to love and someone who love you back and cares for you.
Do it whenever possible. This is the most important part in a long distance relationship.
It is not compulsory to make big plans. You could plan a weekend together or just a skype date. Always look forward to something. This will even avoid your relationship to get bored up.
Physical things will help you hold on to something that will help you remember your love. Something so little can mean so much to a person.
This will keep up the spice with your man and he will be more eager to be with you. It will keep him missing you.
Keep him excited always. Do answer his queries but do not provide the complete information.
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If you are well dressed, it will attract your partner and create an unforgettable image in his eyes. This is a trendy and an elegant way to make someone miss you and a most common approach to be tried by all girls.
He will want to have fun with you. Guys are more visual creatures so give him something good to look it and he will be desperate to take his next step towards you.
This looks like you have nothing else to do in your life other than him Not only does this make you look like the ultimate loser, he will start taking you for granted.
Talk to someone who has been flirting with you from a while. Give your attention to someone else.
If he treats you unkindly, give him the taste of his own medicine. Do whatever you have to in order to kill the urge to respond.
Thank God, the road was deserted. Her lips split into a girlish smile that I still can’t forget. It was indeed a beautiful moment. I felt warm, I wanted the drive to last forever. I dropper her back home and we hugged goodbye. That was the first time we came close.
We met at the café. It was an awesome feeling, she was so cheerful and we both flirting back and forth. I asked her out for a movie that evening.
Romance is very important part of a relationship, you could say what you want and why, but it’s much more effective to show what you want. There are some gestures that will make your relationship exciting and romantic.
Couples who play together, stay together. Choose an activity with your partner that you’ve never done together before that would be of interest to you both, like dancing lessons, staying the night at a new town and exploring it, or indoor skydiving. Give them a all new experience.
you have to do a gesture like anything from a kiss to a lingering thigh stroke under the table.
Let them know what you like, and encourage them to do the same.
You can add a surprise to it, like dessert’s waiting at your place later.
To build a romantic relationship you have to have an initial bonding along with encouragement and support to each other’s growth. Help your partner achieve his or her potential by constantly lifting their spirits up.
Tell your partner that appreciate having them in your life or what you would miss most if he or she were not in your life.
Hold hands, hug, kiss and compliment each other. These little public displays of affection shows that you are proud and happy to be together with your partner.
Pray together so that your soul unites keeping your love strong.
Start today.
And when you stop making such efforts, there would be several days spent exchanging a single word. If you see such signs in your relationship, chances are you’re in a one-sided love affair. You should get out of it now, if you always have to be the first one to make contact.
Your partner will talk about their prior engagements or say they are busy with work. Your partner might say that he or she has too many other obligations to look after, and may object by saying that your expectations are too high. They never return the favor.
If you try to complaint on this issue you are accused of instigating the same fight over and over again. Your partner may actually prefer to call their friends and spending time with them.
A healthy happy loving relationship will bring happiness into each other’s lives and will make you comfortable when you feel down. The partner needs to be with each other when life is not carefree.
If your partner loves you, they will care for your feelings of being in a one sided relationship. Develop a healthy communication.
If you need something, ask him to speak to waiter and get it for you. Ask him to assist you till washroom. He will feel that you need him.
Use an aromatic serum for your hair. It will bring a mild intoxication of your sensual perfume. He would get desperate to hold you close and sink into your fascinating aura!
Black and red are what guys love though, and it will best show off your sexuality. But initially you need to display the femininity in you that’ll attract a man and you definitely need to dress in softer shades.
Do not just sit back; ask him a few questions now and then. Guys love it when a girl shows genuine interest in their life.
It makes him have confident on himself showing that he is the king of the humor world and he will be less nervous around you. Laugh along and try to have a nice time.
Don’t act like you are bored. Start a healthy, funny and useful conversation. You can also crack jokes, it isn’t the guy who has to always be humorous.
If you enjoyed his company and being with him, give him that smile and blush just a little bit and walk on. It’ll definitely leave any guy floating on cloud nine.
Over time, it’s easy to forget the little things that contribute so much to a happy and fulfilling relationship
Make it short and sweet. A few words of love will do. When she finds she will be proud of about what a wonderful partner she has.
Men are not known for wearing their hearts on their sleeves. So if you really want to get on her good side, let her know how you’re feeling. She’ll like that you are comfortable enough with her to open up.
If you are a bit shy in saying out things, you can do so over text message and no one can hear you! You can have a private conversation by sending her a text out of the blue.
When was the last time you massaged her shoulders without suggesting it go further? Do it. She’ll appreciate the non-sexual gesture.
Be sure to bring something back for her when bring for someone else. She may not have willing want it, but she’ll love your thoughtfulness.
Stop wherever you are, look into her eyes, and kiss her in front of everyone.
