SOCIAL MEDIA, is great to be able to share pictures, status, thoughts, to be in touch with old colleagues, schoolmates etc. across the globe, bringing them into your world with a blink of an eye. It is required and nice to stay connected in our business society.
There is no question the Internet is enormously popular, convenient and a delightful way to connect with others. Many social media sites such as Facebook, instagram have about one billion users worldwide. Individual of all age groups have facebook accounts and there isn’t a day they miss to browse it. It certainly offers us an instant audience and attention. It can help fight feelings of loneliness.
Some people try to make new friends on social media. It has the ability to make relationships both easier and more difficult, to start new relationship and destroy the old ones. It can connect us when we are far away. But if it is causing problems in your life or relationship, try to try limit the use of social media when it comes to your relationship.
Do not share everything about your life there, it will lead to more issues. Let’s not allow social media to affect our relationships in a negative way. Use it but in limits, But, even so, there can be a huge danger in this kind of “connecting”.
Trying to connect through social media is actually counterproductive. Let’s see how social media will affect your relationship.
You lost the moment
What are you doing on social media? Sharing moments of all kinds, joy, friendship, beauty and humour. By engaging virtually on social media you lose the connection from your reality and the people in it. There is nothing more powerful than real life connections, no matter how we try to replicate it.
You need someone with skin to give you a smile, wrap their arms around us, or hold our hand in theirs. Real life sharing of moments involve the tenderness of a human embrace. When hiding behind the walls of
the online world there is no warmth, real life interactions have the potential of releasing a powerful warmth. When making a connection with real life people in actual is a way of replicating warmth to engage the world around us. Do not get so caught up in the digital world that you forget the power of physical. There is no happiness more than meeting the people in real and spending time with them.
Facebook can be a source of jealousy and anxiety:
The pictures shared on facebook, and other information can create jealousy, suspicion for couples. The facebook interactions should not be considered obvious as you do not know who is on the other side being involved, as you may not know some of your partner’s Facebook friends.
In some cases, the couples are anxious their partner may leave them, or generally don’t trust their partner. It is also responsible for creating negative feedback loop which, in turn, increases the chance of experiencing more Facebook-related jealousy. Though the partner is completely into you and totally loyal, but social media provides medium for partner interrogation, which may disrupt a person’s sense of privacy as well as the stability of the relationship. Facebook can make the situation much worse if you are already going through certain problems.
It’s addictive and self-absorbing
The pleasure that comes from experience and from people around you, you try to seek that through phone and internet. By continuous use of social media your brain starts functioning the similar way, it starts responding positively to freshness, that social media
offers in a constant stream of new interactions, new posts, and new pictures every second. Although it is known as the medium or tool to remain connected but it can make you feel isolated and obsessed over the response you are getting. Authentically connecting with others has numerous benefits but getting too much involved in it is associated with anxiety and depression.
We can lose our warmth
Have you heard of the tangible connection of one human being to another? That is absolutely required for the success of a relationship. If you and your partner are so much involved on social media, you lose the warmth, the warmth that comes from looking each other smiling in real, by getting involved in a good laugh.
We can lose our inhibition
There are a few things that you would never say out offline but you do say that when you are online. Every person has different quality, one person says whatever comes to their mind no matter the cost, while some have the ability to discern when to speak up and when to refrain. It is true that some things are just better left unsaid. 
But when we are masked behind the screen, it affects our inhibition, this virtual world, we feel empowered and in control. Slowly, we let our walls down. This lack of inhibition gives us the freedom to do things in the online world that we would never do in real life. This can have serious affect on our relationship, ruining it or isolating us from people we could have otherwise connected with. One should understand the impact of social media on itself and challenge themselves to interact with grace, wisdom and humility whether online or off.
True intimacy and connection can get lost
Social media is reliable and fantastic for many reasons but it is actually connecting you to the world for the sake of living, preventing us from experiencing true connection and true intimacy: real life.
It is sometimes funny to see the status updates and stories that people share about every bit of their life, why are we on Facebook right now? Why aren’t we savoring the moment? Live in the moment and enjoy the moment with the
person you are with. In a relationship getting intimate is the root for happy relationship. And there is no chance of intimacy when you are involved in social media.
Don’t give in to the false intimacy that comes with social media and make time for the genuine intimacy.
Make time for the people around you. Here and now.
You would find yourself trying out new cuisines, New dresses, footwears, doing new activities, watching new kind of movies etc. People after falling in love grow more on self concepts and are more self confident.
Everywhere you go you think about them. It’s a strange feeling you never had felt before.they just strike your mind randomly.
These are a normal response to the stress of repeated social encounters with someone for whole you feel, whose impression matters to you strongly.
If you start daydreaming or thinking if events in which you both are playing the role, you are definitely in LoVe.
if you have adult attachment orientations,you are likely to get attached easily with much less intensity.
Although people might imagine that women are the first to utter it, though, research tells that men say “I love you” first. They also tend to fall in love faster.
Some people get to know after years that it is not the right person for them. Life is about meeting people, meeting new people and getting apart from the old ones. You get involved, you fall in love, you throw caution to the wind, and you wind up spending a few too long with someone who is not the right match for you.
In fact, if it is the good match for you, you will support them in their all endeavors; accept them for who they are, how they look and how they talk. If you are not ready to accept them, how can you love them totally?
If it is the right person, you would adjust with them on little things knowing that it would destroy your good relationship. A person’s actions are part of what make them who they are. If you are not happy, anything can become a problem
They would invite you to meet up them with their friends and you are in weird clothes. It won’t matter as you are getting to spend the afternoon together.
The two of you discuss issues such as marriage, children, and where to live. You are ready to make compromises, and you feel comfortable with the pace at which it is progressing.
It is like a conditioning required for a healthy relationship. Sharing hobbies and choices will give you a bigger chance to make your relationship an everlasting one. 
Accept the truth and filter out these people. You will be left with some great fellows which you can actually count on. Time will gradually make your realize who the real ones are.
Be ready to learn, accept the challenge and meet someone that might just change your life forever.
The important thing is that you should try to improve yourself. You will always be decisive about what and where you are in life. So, work on your passions constantly and your partner will be happy to see your doing towards something. Be supportive to your partner and you can work together towards your ideal shelves.
Cheer them, show enthusiasm. This will help in building relationship.
Remember, love and friendship don’t hurt. Do not mess with someone’s feeling just because you’re unsure of yours. Be open, be honest tell them the truth.
What might be good for one person may not be good for another. Allow people to make their own mistakes and their own decisions.
So concentrate on doing what you know in your heart is right. Just focus on what is important for you and how you feel about yourself.
