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What Does Your Zodiac Sign tell About your Romantic State of Mind?

There are different zodiac signs with different approach to love. These signs vary person to person according to their birthdays. Every person has different traits according to their zodiac signs. Do you know what your zodiac sign says about your love life? If you believe in these signs you ought to know what they say. You will get a lot of hint about your relationship by knowing this.
Let’s see what your zodiac sign can tell you about your romantic state of mind, love life and dating habits

Aries (March 21-April 19):

Aries, is known as the wild child. A person with this sign is known to be strong-willed, impulsive, but when it comes about caring for someone, they are really caring. They show the same. They are quite independent or love to be independent and loyal to a fault!

Taurus (April 20-May 20):

Oh yea, the bull headed one. The most protective of all the signs, you can definitely be an “eyes on the prize” type when it comes to romantic conquests. You are like super caring for the one who matter to you for the ones you love. A bull is pretty much your spirit animal. Yoir friends will demand your side in a fight for sure and will think their secrets are safe when it reaches a taurian.

Gemini (May 21-June 21):

The Gemini’s are sucked for dramatic flair. The unusual, the curious things fascinate you a lot. You have a tendency to be ruled by your moods. Your sign symbolize you go through highs and lows, one dark and one light. Some people may consider you as their own personal sour patch kid. Personally they all love you and like being you, as they know things will never be boring with you Gemini.

Cancer (June 22-July 22):

You are a cancerain? Then you might be not a very casual eater. Its ok. You are sweet, sensitive and you know what you want, and that’s rare.
Cancer, they either love you or don’t want to have anything to do with you. If a cancer do not like you, you are out of the area…

Leo (July 23-August 22):

A Leo is loved and liked by everyone You, my friend, are a fire sign, which means you’re totally and completely loyal to your loved ones and always willing to go the extra mile to make someone feel welcome and cared for. You are fierce, confident, enthusiastic, and you have an image that no one wants to cross your way.

Virgo (August 23-September 22):

Virgo you’re the least stubborn earth sign, but when you’re right, you’re right, and no one can move you from your decision. You have a logical mind and you are particularly paying attention to details. And a trait that people likes about is your sense of shy independence, which is too cute.

Libra (September 23-October 22):

Everybody knows you’re striving for a more harmonious world, when you are not moody or not in a extra mood, you are fun to be around.

Scorpio (October 23-November 21):

When a scorpion is talked about,high standard are in mind. You, Scorpio, are one magnanimous and lively character. And people love you for it. People may sometimes not be sure as to how to approach you sometimes. They may find you a little intimidating.

Sagittarius (November 22-December 21):

Sagittarius, you are more than usual wild, adventurous and experimental. You are the true fire sign, you may get bored easily, your spontaneity keeps things fresh and totally exciting for both you and your partner. You do not hide things, keeping it real. It’s a super refreshing part of your personality, and don’t let anyone ever tell you different.

Capricorn (December 22-January 19):

You are quite practical and dependable, you are seen as the ultimate “no nonsense” sign of the zodiac. Hey. And you’re not mad about any shot happening around, Capricorn – because you know that steadfastness is a characteristic many of us work hard to attain. You’re the most ambitious and determined sign of the entire zodiac.

Aquarius (January 20-February 18):

Aquarius, Lovers would be hard put to keep you in check, really. You prefer to be in daydreams than face reality at times. We’ve all been there, but know that you can’t go running away from all of your problems. Especially when it comes to someone you really care about – sometimes you gotta sit down and talk it out.

Pisces (February 19-March 20):

You, Pisces, are the most romantic of all the zodiac signs – and the easiest to get along with. You love to dream, You are a combo of your artistic senses and a major turn-on for any potential partner. Even after being hurt in the past you are a hopeless romantic. You’re stronger than you think you are, you are available for the ones who deserve your trust and open heart.

Going on a First Date? Basic Tips for all The Beautiful Ladies There!!

Love is like magic, love is having shared interests.
No one has to truly understand what love is, it is something that is to be felt. Love makes you feel more alive than anything.
Love makes your heart beat a skip, it gives you butterflies. It makes you nervous, excited and passionate.
Love is filling and honest, it can’t be replaced or bought.
A date is the start for that love. Your first date is the one to meet your potential love should be passionate. It is the opportunity to meet the love of your life, the one you could probably spend the rest of your life with!
You pretty girls out there, you are the one He Craves For. If a guy asks you out on a date, you have definitely impressed the guy, you have done something right already so it is good start.

Dating is a little game of courtship between two potential lovers. You may like each other but when you are sitting next to each other in a romantic atmosphere, it is the judgment time.
You both would want to know everything about each other to judge the compatibility between the
two. But remember to create the first impression the unforgettable.
The tips below will help to leave a mark forever.

What to wear on the first date?

Every girl goes through this: wardrobe panic, especially when the “dress to impress” pressure is on!
Yes, you should look pretty, hot or sexy but comfort should be your first priority! Don’t expose too much. Avoid over trendy outfits or loud makeup. Be simple, natural and minimal for your first date. Dress up according to the place you are going

  • For casual daytime setting Casual staples: Jeans, converse or   flats, t-shirts or casual tops.
  • For a dressy dinner date Choose skinny jeans with silk camisole   and blazer, heels or a decent dress.  
  • For a casual dinner Jeans and a cute blouse or tee are the best.

After you are dressed up accordingly, here are some other tips that you should know to impress this new man in your life.

#1 Make him feel like a man: Give him the chance to pamper you, to be your protector and he will love you for it. Help him feel like a man by asking him things to do for you which you might be able to do yourself but it is important. If you need something, ask him to speak to waiter and get it for you. Ask him to assist you till washroom. He will feel that you need him.

#2 The art of smelling nice: Girls, please remember this tip. Every guy will remember how you smell. Don’t soak yourself in perfume but use it over your neck, cleavage, palms and anywhere you want to smell good. Use an aromatic serum for your hair. It will bring a mild intoxication of your sensual perfume. He would get desperate to hold you close and sink into your fascinating aura!

#3 Pastel colors are appealing: Look no further than soft pastel colors to impress your guy, pick the right attire as already described above. Black and red are what guys love though, and it will best show off your sexuality. But initially you need to display the femininity in you that’ll attract a man and you definitely need to dress in softer shades.

#4 Don’t sit numb: You are not going for an interview. You are not there to just answer the questions. Do not just sit back; ask him a few questions now and then. Guys love it when a girl shows genuine interest in their life.

#5 Smile. Laugh. Be Jolly: It highly inspires a guy seeing a girl who is smiling and laughing. It makes him have confident on himself showing that he is the king of the humor world and he will be less nervous around you. Laugh along and try to have a nice time.

#6 Making him indulge: Do make him feel like a man but don’t make him overdo on the first date. It may end up scaring him off and leaving both of you broke. Be yourself, but don’t flaunt your high maintenance status unless you know for sure that he can afford it. Do not call trouble for yourself. If you can’t carry too much of drinks, then do avoid it.
Remember, a date isn’t the same as hanging out with your friends.

#7 Be a conversationalist: Probably when you are on a date, it you both who has to entertain each other. Don’t act like you are bored. Start a healthy, funny and useful conversation. You can also crack jokes, it isn’t the guy who has to always be humorous.

#8 Act smart and intelligent: Yes, guys do find dumb girls cute. But just for a while. For a long run, guys prefer to have a girl who is smart, intelligent and independent. Be the one. He would probably want you to laugh but do not laugh on anything and everything.

#9 The right kind of goodbye: You both had a good time sitting and enjoying. The way you say goodbye to the guy at the end of the first date will make him think about you. If you enjoyed his company and being with him, give him that smile and blush just a little bit and walk on. It’ll definitely leave any guy floating on cloud nine.
Well that’s it for the first date. Rest is on you in which direction you take it. It can be awesome, it can be bad, but do follow the guidelines above. Unless the guy is terribly boring and dumb, this roadmap will definitely take you to the hut of love. Have the patience to find the right guy, the perfect guy is also looking for his other half in.
One of your gifts as a woman is your profound intuition. Use it to judge the right guy for you. The magic of the feminine is your mystery. Trust your instincts, you know things way in advance.
First impressions can never be made a second time, don’t waste the opportunity.
There is a reason that when you love you light up a room.
Make your man realize your power!

13 Little Things to do to Make Your Girl Feel Special!!

Have you ever got all the right notes with a woman? Maybe yes? Or not. Now are not the days when notes are passed on the class as an attempt to flirting. A women demands more than it, and while good looks help, you need the right set of personality traits
Does your special lady feel special about relationship? You want to make her feel special? Here you will get to know about the little things that mean a lot. Over time, it’s easy to forget the little things that contribute so much to a happy and fulfilling relationship
Though it i’s not difficult to make a woman feel special but you have to be careful sometimes. Some women appreciate the little things while some are flattered by big surprises. Just show her that you really care and she will be the one who will love you the most.
When couples stay together for a longer time, they often grow apart. You can show your woman just how much you care by doing little things to make her happy and keep the relationship alive. Show her how much she means to you, she will return the love and affection to you.
A good relationship doesn’t just happen. It takes efforts! A relationship will have happiness when both partners believe that giving is much better than receiving, and that’s what this feature is all about.

Ways to make a girl feel special and loved

Your woman is the most wonderful person you’ve ever known, and you should do anything for her. Show her how much she means to you by taking the time to do some of the little things on this list. They will be worth it surely.

#1 Don’t hesitate to tell her how great she looks or smells. Obviously she knows
she is pretty. But do not forget to tell her how attractive you find her. Tell her how great
you think she looks or smells, especially when you know she has done something extraordinary for you. If she follows what you like, if she care how you want to see her, she obviously will want to be complimented, so make it a point to let her know that you appreciate her efforts.

#2 Leave notes for her. Women love surprises. Give her a heartfelt love not unexpectedly is a fabulous way to surprise her. Do not hesitate to write even if you are not a good writer. Make it short and sweet. A few words of love will do. When she finds she will be proud of about what a wonderful partner she has.

#3 Do not forget her friends. Listen to her when she talks. It can be hard to do many times, especially when the things she talks about don’t involve you directly. However, if you remember the names of her friends, lets her know that you listen to her what she speaks.

#4 Share your feelings. For men it might be difficult to show feelings. Men are not known for wearing their hearts on their sleeves. So if you really want to get on her good side, let her know how you’re feeling. She’ll like that you are comfortable enough with her to open up.
#5 Send her texts.. Texts are an easy way to surprise her with words of love and affection. If you are a bit shy in saying out things, you can do so over text message and no one can hear you! You can have a private conversation by sending her a text out of the blue.

#6 Don’t use guilt trips to get what you want. Do not pressure your woman to do something that she is not willing to do. To make you happy maybe she would do but she will resent you just a little bit because of it. Do not guilt her into doing anything odd.

#7 Let her control the TV remote for a change. You will have a plus point if you give her the control to watch her favourite once in awhile.

Actually sit down and watch with her, or maybe even get to pick the next movie you two see.

#8 Give her a massage with no strings attached. Massaging her neck and shoulders is a great way to help her relax. When was the last time you massaged her shoulders without suggesting it go further? Do it. She’ll appreciate the non-sexual gesture.

#9 Get her something, too. If you are visiting a store for a coffee, get one for her too. Be sure to bring something back for her when bring for someone else. She may not have willing want it, but she’ll love your thoughtfulness.

#10 Just listen.Sometimes she simply wants you to listen. She’s not looking for answers or advice.
Just listen and be there for her as she figures things out for herself.

#11 Kiss her in public. Show her that you are proud to have her in your life. You might not think PDAs are cool, but if you haven’t kissed your lady in public in quite some time, do it now. Stop wherever you are, look into her eyes, and kiss her in front of everyone.

#12 Use the manners your mama taught you. Despite all the equality women still love the old-fashioned treatment. Show her the respect by opening doors for her, pulling out her chair, and let her order first at a restaurant.

#13 Go shopping with her. If you’re not busy and she wants to go to the mall, go with her. She will love to select her clothes with you. And while you are shopping with her, behave like you want to be there and you might be surprised with her appreciation later on.
It might be a little complicated to make a women feel special. It is not always important to spend a ton of money, just make those grand gestures. She will definitely appreciate the little things that you do as an effort on your part, which shows you care.

Hey Boyfriend? Are your Following these Relationship Rules?

It can be a difficult work to maintain a strong, but it doesn’t have to be. For a happy relationship it is important to create loving relationships with the women you date.
Being in a relationship is not easy, there are some a must have rules in every relationship that we need to understand and put into action. This article will help you to make your relationship successful if ever you’re having difficulty. Every boy out there wants to be a good or better boyfriend.

Here are some rules for boyfriends that they must know.

  • Kiss your girlfriend often, kiss her gently and not so gently, and kiss her like it’ll take her breath away. Be a passionate kisser. Give her goodbye kiss, get well soon kiss etc.
  • Write her a love letter of she asks you to do it. Even if you aren’t that sentimental type, just do it. It just has to be real and heartfelt not poetic. She will appreciate your efforts, crudely drawn symbols on a tissue paper, trust me. All you need is a pen and paper, it’s not that hard.
  • If you both have developed that relationship of “I love you,” which everyone reaches at their own pace, say it often. And know that you can probably never say it enough. Don’t rush to say I love You initially and also don’t let the fear of saying it overwhelm you. “I love you” is a sacrifice and a big deal.
  • Appreciate, notice the changes, about her hair, fashion sense, mannerisms, etc. The smallest positive comment will probably lift her spirits. She will love you back more if you notice her little things.
  • Do not use the points they are conscious about against them in an argument. It’s not fun being vulnerable with someone, especially your girlfriend.
  • Do not ask her for stuff that can be bought with money. Like on birthdays, anniversary’s etc. do not ask her to gif you that expensive watch or sunglasses you liked in the store. If she asks you about gift, say “Your love is all I need”.
  • As opposed to texting, talk on the phone more. Whether it’s calling to ask about potential plans or calling to find out how her day was. And if you are texting at some time, be more considerate about the length of time you take to respond to a text.
  • Get to know her friends well. Treat them respectfully. You do not have to be best friends with them, good things come to those who win their significant other’s friends and family.
  • Keep her out of all the negativity, even if she complains about her family most of the times, it doesn’t give you the liberties and rights to do so. Do not do anything that could be interpreted in a wrong way.
  • Be chivalrous because it is a good thing to be chivalrous.
  • Take her on special dates. Chill out, be comfortable, have formal dates, go on drives.This is the best part about dating. But don’t get lazy just because you’re with someone.
  • Be supportive, appreciate her interests, her talents and accomplishments. Swallow up your manly pride and do what she like. If she likes hanging out in bookstores and you hate it, have patience and understand her passions.
  • Ask her out and do not just assume the things. Ask her what is her comfort level, with anything physical. When uncomfortable, ask. It is always better to ask than to assume.
  • Keep way all intimate details about your relationship. That means there is really no reason to tell every last detail to your friends, coworkers, etc. You girlfriend will hate it.
  • Beware of participating in any objectively unnecessary behavior on social media. Keep your personal pictures and texts hidden. Do not share them.
  • Never be late when picking her up from her office or home. She would make you wait for hours, but will be very upset if you make her wait.
  • Do not shout at her, be very conservative about your anger. She might make you angry at times, on various situations very angry, but still try to choose your words wisely when you’re angry. Do not say something that she won’t be ever able to forget. This will spoil your relationship.
  • In the process of making her jealous, do not spoil the relationship. It’s not fun and it’s not fair to them.
  • Never let pay for anything. She might insist at times, if you go out on a date, make sure you pay for everything. It is one of the worst thing a boyfriend asking her girlfriend to pay. If still money is a problem, compensate by being the sweetest and a caring lover.
  • Don’t expect her to change anything about who she is with your. are for you. This includes their body, their religion, their politics, etc. If she loves you she will surely compromise with her own choice, but do not expect her to change to meet your needs.
  • Do not show your smartness by playing games with her. Nothing good ever comes from it. Be clear to them, how you feel and you know how they feel.
  • Treat her with love, respect, and how you would like to be treated. You love her, she loves you back. Be the best person she could ever have in her life. Do not let your love fade with time. As long as you’re trying in a relationship, feel free to bend any of the rules to do whatever works for you.

The relationship rules for men are made for each one out there to help them create stronger relationships.

“Being deeply loved by someone gives you the strength, while loving someone deeply gives you the courage.”

Emotional Stages You would Come Across Being in a New Relationship!!

New relationships are exciting, aren’t they?

You meet someone new, you know each other, you fall in LOVE and you don’t see how things could be any better.

“Oh my god, you are the perfect person I have ever met?”

New relationships are great. They’re full of excitement and discovery.

“You are so hot! How are you so hot?”

In the beginning, you feel every moment like a magic, like a fairy tale. You feel like you have not met the same ever before and no other person can make you feel the same. This is completely normal and everyone goes through it.
The scientific reason behind this feeling is that when you get in a new relationship, your brain is churning out oxytocin, the love hormone. Unfortunately, it tends to reduce over time, which may give rise to some emotional stages in a new relationship.

Made for each other

You start thinking your partner as the most perfect person who ever existed and you both totally made for each other. Every moment you are with them, you have the time of your life. You consider each other extremely compatible. They’re also the most attractive person you’ve ever met. You can’t imagine anyone else with you in the same way.

Every Song Make You Think of Them

Any kind of song you are listening to, bollywood, hollywood, some song in a serial or the newest teeny-bopper song on the radio, it’s all about the person you are attracted with. The rhythm alone is enough to make you start adoring them. You start imagining the song video with you and your partner in it. You can relate the lyrics with the feeling you have.

Stalking ex

You start searching their ex on Google frequently to see if you are hotter than they are? And that is actually funny and crazy. But everyone does that at the emotional stage of a relationship.

Getting mad at each other

You both start getting mad at each other. You think it is difficult to survive this way. Both the partners start blaming each other for the little things that won’t even bother much. One starts getting mad because the other has lost its temper badly.

Curiosity

Will things always be this great? Will we together happy forever? Will all these pleasant experiences be for lifetime? Is sex just a thing? Will be attract each other always? Everyone starts getting curious of these little doubts.

Negative thoughts

These negative thoughts troubles every person in a relationship: What if one day things aren’t great and this ends. Do you think it might end? Will be get back to being strangers? I would be so broken and sad. How will i recover from the loss. You’re in for a lifetime of fantastic relationship, and love – making. You never want it to end, but you are afraid somewhere inside, that it will.

I Feel This Strongly About You, But I Hardly Know You

Some weird thought that very odd may strike your mind often. These thought will make you realize that you really don’t know them that well. What if they have some kind of disease? Is it weird to ask about diseases? Some kind of criminal record? They could even have kids they’re not telling you about. It’s enough to make you feel over – suspicious.

They don’t text or call you instantly, Something Must Be Wrong

What if this is their way of saying they’re no longer interested? Sometimes the person gets busy in some work or with family and is not able to meet you or talk to you instantly. You would start thinking as if something wrong has happened. Or they might be attracted to someone else. You won’t be able to adore them much now.

Great, You’re Angry With Me

The first fight or a big argument is always the most unpleasant and hurting one.

At this stage of a relationship you are in a very sensitive state to get hurt. Even still, you talked it out together and now everything is perfect again, but you might be afraid you future fights and how to tackle them.

You Have a Lot of Bad Habits

These things didn’t bother you before, but now you might be noticing those little things that irritate you about your partner. Maybe they’ve even caused a few petty arguments. But
later you realize the things you love about them are still more than these arguments, so it’s okay.

Past

One day you might get eager to know why did they ever break up with their ex? Or their ex broke up with them, why? Am I missing something important? What if the same thing happens and we break up? You might get mad thinking of all these stuff.

Ego issues

You won’t say I LOVE YOU, even though you would feel that strongly. You would want to hug them, but won’t say it. You will always be confused in initiating the things.

That I don’t care attitude

GIving that I don’t care attitude,even if your partner wants to dump you. Making them show like you have long list of fans waiting for your response and they are much better than them. “I’ll find someone else. It’s not a big deal”. Whatever.

Sentimental feelings

A time comes when you think you can even beg them for staying. Please don’t leave me, I’ve already imagined our wedding and you are so great I could cry. what’s that? And you like me as much as I like you? And I should just stop overthinking?
All these thoughts are natural to disturb a relationship, a happy relationship. If you do not give up on your partner and fight with all these issues, you can stay happily with your partner for always.

Are you in love with someone? Is it the right person for you?

One of the most exciting, rewarding and scariest thing to do is falling in love. Once you are in love with someone, it becomes difficult to live without them. You were even alive when you didn’t met them.
It is very important to build an attachment for a healthy relationship. Staying in a relationship is often based on satisfaction and to feel good in the presence of another person.
A staying power of relationship depends on mutual investment and determination along with commitment.
Love involves passion, security and emotional comfort. Both the partners should be committed to each other with one’s cultural and social contexts to be with that person.
Here are some questions to help you sort out whether you are in love or not:

  • Are you suddenly doing new things?

As people fall in love, they start doing things that their partner favors. They often do something different from the normal. You would find yourself trying out new cuisines, New dresses, footwears, doing new activities, watching new kind of movies etc. People after falling in love grow more on self concepts and are more self confident.

  • Everything reminds you of him

Whether you’re walking around, or shopping or eating at a restaurant or you see a cafe, you wish your partner was there with you. Everywhere you go you think about them. It’s a strange feeling you never had felt before.they just strike your mind randomly.

  • Your appetite shrinks

Have you felt like getting butterflies in your stomach when you see the one you love or you like them? This is a common sign to tell if you are in love.

  • Have you been especially stressed lately?

You might feel tensed, anxious or jittery when you are about to meet them. These are a normal response to the stress of repeated social encounters with someone for whole you feel, whose impression matters to you strongly.

  • He/ she is perfect

People when fall in love, they start considering all the positive qualities of them, ignoring the negative ones. If you start daydreaming or thinking if events in which you both are playing the role, you are definitely in LoVe.

  • How intense are your emotions?

When love is budding, people get attached very soon,they tend to experience a high degree of passion. Though everyone has a different experience of falling in love, but many gets this feeling of emotional attachment.if you have adult attachment orientations,you are likely to get attached easily with much less intensity.

  • Are you tempted to say, “I love you”?

A sure sign of romantic interest, some people are more hesitant to utter these three words than others. Although people might imagine that women are the first to utter it, though, research tells that men say “I love you” first. They also tend to fall in love faster.

  • Are you investing more in this person?

If you are investing enough in the person, all the time, energy, emotions etc., it is the hallmark of successful couples. People who fall in love are likely to increase their investment in the other person, connecting their lives together in a way that might endorse commitment and stability. Whether you have been in a relationship for years or months or just found the one, how do you know if you are with the right person? Are you dating the right person?
It can be hard to tell sometimes, it can be a good experience or a bad experience. Some people get to know after years that it is not the right person for them. Life is about meeting people, meeting new people and getting apart from the old ones. You get involved, you fall in love, you throw caution to the wind, and you wind up spending a few too long with someone who is not the right match for you.
Here are some points that can help you find, whether you are with the right person or no

You don’t want to change them.

Maybe you don’t like their profession. Maybe they are not humorous or they are a lot humorous, which you do not like. Maybe you start thinking of them in some different look, different hairstyle and skin type. Whatever the criteria is, if you are assuming them to be like someone else other than exactly the way they are, you’re probably with the wrong person. In fact, if it is the good match for you, you will support them in their all endeavors; accept them for who they are, how they look and how they talk. If you are not ready to accept them, how can you love them totally?

You’re prepared to let minor things go.

If you are with the right person in the right relationship, you will probably not speak much about the unimportant small things that bothers you about your partner. If it is the right person, you would adjust with them on little things knowing that it would destroy your good relationship. A person’s actions are part of what make them who they are. If you are not happy, anything can become a problem

You don’t really care about “looking good.”

If it is a chance to meet the person, you do not care about how you are looking. They would invite you to meet up them with their friends and you are in weird clothes. It won’t matter as you are getting to spend the afternoon together.

You Think Long-Term.

When you start thinking of your future with them, you are with the right person. You can imagine being with them for any number of years. You know each other’s family and you are eager to meet them as soon as possible. The two of you discuss issues such as marriage, children, and where to live. You are ready to make compromises, and you feel comfortable with the pace at which it is progressing.
For a relationship to go on smoothly you need to know yourself to able to know if someone else is right for you.

Date Ideas for your Valentine’s Day With your Partner!!

Love is a feeling that makes people do stupid, dangerous as well as magnanimous and bold things.
But what is love really?
People define love differently, so they show it differently and have different expectations.
Most of the problems couples experience is a result of a miscommunication in love or unfulfilled expectation around love. Every year, the month of February brings joy for the couples. They celebrate their love and togetherness on Valentine’s Day.

The origins of Valentine’s Day stems from the third century, when a Roman priest was punished to death on February 14. According to one legend, Claudius II had prohibited marriage for young men, claiming that bachelors made better soldiers. Valentine continued to secretly perform marriage ceremonies, imprisoned by Claudius, fell in love with the daughter of his jailer. Before he was executed, he allegedly sent her a letter signed “from your Valentine.”
Eventually the custom of sending cards or messages to those whom one admired became the accepted way of celebrating Valentine’s Day.
Till now, couples celebrate this day.
So how do you celebrate your Valentine’s Day?
Here are some great romantic Valentine’s date ideas that you can do with your partner.

Date ideas for yet to be married couples

Movies: If nothing works, movie surely does. Go for a movie with your partner. If you can afford, book the whole hall for the movie date, so you both can enjoy the movie the way you want or let your date pick the movie and enjoy the show with each other.

Picnic: This is a cute, fun and sweet gesture that is never out of style. Make a few eatables that are your partner’s favorite. Go out to a beautiful area and enjoy the scenery while being able to talk and eat.

Themed Night: You can call up your couple friends and gather at some place. You can watch some old romantic movie or your favorite Netflix etc. which will allow you and your friends to have a comfortable time in your pajamas!

Romantic dinner date: If you want to have a personal quality time with each other. Choose a romantic dim – lit restaurant, you can pick a roof top restaurant. Plan beforehand to decorate your area with candles and flowers. Dressed up your best and enjoy each other’s company with delicious food. For boys, keep in mind, nothing can make a girl more special then going to a fancy restaurant with one she adores. Choose a place where you usually do not go.

Go To A Concert: If you both love music and dance perhaps a concert would be the perfect night for you. Just do a search for artists you love and see what you can find. As it is the valentine’s night, many places will have rock shows.

Host a Valentine’s Day Dance: If you have basements, set up some fancy lights, tell a few of your closest friends to bring their favorite CDs and have yourselves a dance.

Do Some Social Good: How about making someone else’s Valentine’s Day special? You and your date can visit a nursing home and give Valentine’s Day cards to the residents. They would be glad to see you and they love talking to young people.

For Married Couples

Just because you’re married doesn’t mean you have to approach Valentine’s Day any differently than single people. You can also plan a romantic day and night with your partner. Come on, it is the Valentine, don’t let it be like another day.

Romantic Dinner at Home: Plan a romantic dinner at home. You either can cook together, or cook each other’s favorite dishes. Present it beautifully on table with candles and rose petals. Battle of the Sexes – You can call up your best friends, if you don’t want to spend the night alone and have a fun nights, husbands versus wives.

Start a new tradition: You would be following a tradition since you got married. Renew your commitment to each other and how you want to create an awesome sexual connection together by being specific. Discus with each other your ideas of fun dates etc.

Try a sexy challenge: Bring it the next level, your romance and intimacy. Be really cheesy-romantic with each other, even discuss it beforehand, so that you know your partner isn’t getting crazy. In this challenge, a couple does something a little differently in their sex life and it adds a spiritual feel to your lovemaking. Your understanding and chemistry is freshened up.

Surprise your spouse with a special getaway together: You can make reservations to some resort, pack bags for each other and surprise your partner. This would be like a holiday to both of you and will surely impress your partner.

Give a good start: Do not wait for the night to celebrate it. Give a good start, set the mood for the day as soon as you wake up by getting up a little early and making love. Prepare a sweet and special breakfast for each other. Write love notes and leave it at places everywhere they go when they get up. Attach it to their brush. Or set beautiful wallpaper on their phone about your love.

Sext: Though V-Day is on Tuesday, you might not be able to spend the day together. You might be in your office, and then send loving, passionate, sexy fun texts to each other. Be sure to discuss the sexy fun that waits when you’re reunited later that evening.

Bubble bath: Oh yes, do not miss it. A relaxing Bubble Bath!

Make sure you SET THE MOOD first!Prepare for relaxing music, candles, magazines, flower petals, glass of wine and beautiful scent.

Love hunt: After dinner, do not just end the day. Keep the excitement on. Love hunt is like a treasure hunt, in order to get each clue; there is a task your partner will have to complete, such as:

  • Dance with you for a romantic song.
  • Kiss you like you’ve never been kissed before.
  • Feed each other chocolate-dipped strawberries.

Do not act like robots, purchasing flowers and chocolate for their sweethearts because that is what everyone else is doing.

Celebrate this Valentine’s bit a more romantically and creatively.

Celebrate Your Anniversary In A Special Way With These Date Ideas!!

A large number of marriages are performed in the month of February. It is known as the month of love. February turns out to be a month of marriages as several auspicious muhurthams are available in the month.
Celebrating an anniversary with your better half—whether its one year or 12—is always worth it. You have reached that stage. Crushing those relationship goals, doing the hard work for relationship survival and milestones should be marked. Find an activity that’s the best for celebrating your anniversary.
Do something new and different together as a couple, that’s the best way to create a memory of your anniversary. Stretch yourselves a bit. Cherish the memories you already have with your partner and imagine what new ones you can create!
Anniversaries are an occasion to spend quality time together, distressed from the daily schedule. DO not stress out to plan an activity for your anniversary. Take a lead to make a plan or make it a combined effort to plan something awesome.
Here’s a quick ideas to how to treat your anniversary — whether it’s the first or fifth.

1. Create a new tradition
Find what you’re into, and splurge for a night! To add a spice to your relationship, you can start a new ritual that you two will do every year. You can create a journal in which you can write about celebration activities and new memories.

You can also write love letters to each other that you will open and read on next year’s anniversary. Adding something new to your anniversary will allow you to look forward to next year’s celebration.

2. Visit the spot where you two met.
Whether it’s a bar, or café, head back to the scene where you two first met.

3. A box of love
Wives, give your husband a small wooden box filled with handwritten notes, adding some pictures of the two of you along with memories from the past year.

4. Go together in a Water Park
In the summertime, if you have nearby water park, go and have fun with your partner. Or have a DIY water park in your backyard. Be young at heart even if you are adults.

5. Go for a Boat Ride
Everything is better, romantic and sweet when you are doing something different.

6. First meeting
Husbands, take your wife to the place where you proposed her. Be a little cheesy, express your love and give her some flowers or jewelry. exact location where you proposed.

7. Stargaze
We can’t resist spending the night outside as it is so romantic. Sit back in your balcony or on terrace and gaze at the stars. Nothing can be more romantic and peaceful than it. It’s so classic that it’s almost a cliché.

8. Go Dancing
You both might not be club people, but give it a try. Go out enjoy the music and dance like nobody is watching you. The strangers will be jealous to see you people dancing together with fun.

9. Make it a Netflix night
If you’re the type of couple who doesn’t get time sit together after work. Spend your anniversary on the couch with takeout, wine and watch your fav Netflix or movie.

10. Make an Anniversary Mix CD
Make a CD of special songs that holds a meaning in your life as a couple and go somewhere on a drive and relax and listen. Share with each other the memories you associate with the songs. Or you both can make a CD for each other and dedicate the songs.

11. Go to a Street Fair
Because life is sweet when food is cheap. Discover new and interesting types of food vendors and enjoy their delicious food. It’s time to be crazy.

12. Check Out a New Band
Maybe somewhere around your city some famous indie artists might be up for a concert. Go and join them. Or check in for a live music band. It will bring a memory to the special day.

13. Find a hot tub spa, a chic bathhouse, or hot springs.
If you’re looking to heat up the night, get a hot tub spa. Pamper each other with jacuzzi plus rose petals plus candles and wine. Make it more romantic with strawberries dipped in nutella.

14. Document the Night
Do a couple of things and document the night. Hit the pub around the corner, head to the cafe for dessert or just grab takeout. Have plenty of fun, go on rides and click silly pictures. It will create an awesome memory, and later on looking these photos can make you feel even more connected.

15. Get photos taken together
If you both like getting clicked together, take selfies, celebrate your love. Or hire a photographer and get a photo shoot. Ask him to take some stylish pictures of two of you. This would be like a memory for whole life. It will surely excite you whenever you have a look at them.

16. Spend the Night By the Fireplace
Flames are sexier than CFL’s any day. Start a fire, turn off the lights and have drinks with soothing music. What can me more romantic than this!
17. Getaways

  • Take a day trip together to your favorite spot.
  • Visit a ski resort.
  • Go on a scenic drive and take a halt at the cheese bar.
  • Go camping
  • Plan an adventurous backpacking trip.
  • Live in the woods or next to a lake or ocean.
  • Take a scenic train trip.

If you are worried about the expenditure for all the above ideas. Do not worry. Here are some pointers for saving money on your anniversary.

  • Always look for exclusive coupons as well as cash back to many online retailers.
  • Always scour the local paper and ads for coupons.
  • In addition subscribe to your favorite stores and restaurants email lists to get great deals.
  • Take advantage of buy one get one free offers and other deals.

If you two have been busy throughout the year, you both really need to have the best of the times together. Your anniversary is a wonderful time of the year where you can celebrate the relationship you two have worked so hard on. Exchange gifts, plan something special with these creative ideas and enjoy the immense amount of love you share together.

Be the Happiest Couple!

Little and Big Things Men Need to Know About their Women!!

Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus

Being a women starts from inside out. Women are complex, confounding, impossible to predict and so on.
What do women want?” The subject is obviously compelling enough, women are an incredible gift. A man should figure out exactly what they are and what they want.Do you men know all those things that women want you to know about them, without actually having to tell you that you should know them?
Yes, those things. These are them. Read on and learn…
What Men Need to Know About Women

Women don’t want you to fix it- we just want you to listen.

Maybe there are a few things that you might not be able to fix, but she wants you to listen it. Women just want to feel validated, supported, and hear. She wants to have opinion for their talks.

Women hates being compared

They may ask you in a funny manner about how they can compare you to a female friend. No matter what she says do not compare. Because no matter what your answer is, you will end up upsetting her.

She would ask you to compare but eventually would hate being compared.

Women appreciate the little things

When it comes to impressing your girlfriend or wife, you don’t have to go big or go home. What a women is looking for is thoughtfulness. Your love is best communicated
in details through small acts of service, meaningful touch and kind words. It will melt her when you will bring surprise flowers for her. The little things often say the most.

Mood swings

Most women suffer from PMS symptoms to some degree while for some these symptoms are bloody awful. The sudden drop of oestrogen before the period can result into the feelings of anxiety, vulnerability, neediness, and even depression.
It isn’t her fault, her feelings are being governed by her hormones, that can result into irrational arguments or feelings of complete dismay. And then her troubles will melt away after she recovers. Aside the feelings, PMS can also involve hormonal headaches and migraines, pains, and fatigue and physical weakness. Be kind to the pre-menstrual woman!

Most women take longer to orgasm from sex than men do.

Some women orgasm from penetration, and some women can cum any which-way. It is not as simple for women to orgasm as for men. She will unlikely be brought to orgasm if she is anxious, stressed or unrelaxed. For a woman, if her mind isn’t there, she won’t get there.

Most women LOVE foreplay and attention to detail.

She loves to foreplay like kissing, touching, tickling and licking. A women loves it if sex starts to soft and slow. You gotta carefully lead up.

Don’t mistake their tears for weakness.

Get used to her tears. She will have tears in the state of anger, excitement, tears of anger and joy, get used to. Men, as you see these tears, remember that they are not a sign of weakness- but a sign of strength to be real, vulnerable, and genuine.

Women wake up looking a whole lot different than when they went to bed.

Don’t expect your woman to get up and look the same as when she slept. Almost all the women wake up looking like crazy-zombie-people, while guys look even cuter. All men should know so they have an idea of exactly what it is they’re getting into.

The worst thing you can do to get them to calm down, is to tell them to relax.

Make sure to use any words carefully when she is in a bad mood. She will show you her real face if you ask her to relax in order to cool her down.

Women want to be your partner – not your mother.

A relationship is a give and take relation. Women always have the attitude to take care of the men in their lives and then resenting them.

But to have a healthy relationship, the women also expects to be taken care of. They want to serve, yet they also need to be served. They want to give, but they also need to feel that they are receiving.

Women think a man’s most attractive quality- is his heart.

Don’t ever lose the sight of this most important thing. She is looking for your faith, purity, character, honesty etc. as meaningful things than all else you could offer her.

It doesn’t matter what you say, what matters is how she feels

A woman’s self esteem is dug deep inside where it should be, within herself. You may compliment her, call her sexy or beautiful, but if she doesn’t feel it, it is of no use. You need to make her feel that she is gorgeous. Actions speak better than words.

She is also afraid of rejection

It sucks for her too to be rejected just like man. A woman always desire to be desired, and not rejected. She waits to be pursued and loved.
Women needs to be loved and not understood. Like anything in life, do not avoid the things that you can’t understand. Choose to observe, learn and cherish them.

The 11 Stages in a Relationship – Never or Forever!!

We all wish to experience love in a perfect way. We have many fantasies about love. We long to experience love the way it happens in movies, reality is that for all of us relationships go through different stages.

As it is rightly said,

“You don’t develop courage by being happy in your relationship every day. You develop it by surviving difficult times and challenging diversity” – Epicurus

Maintaining a relationship that is long-lasting aw well rewarding is difficult and important. For many the key to happiness is having great relationships. Of course, what good is money and success if you have no one to share it with?
There are several reasons for failed relationships and it is often a source of great psychological suffering. It is not inborn to have a great relationship, you will have to work consciously to master the skills required to make them flourish.
If you are already in a relationship you would have come across several stages that are a part of love. If it is your first love, let us help you to have an overlook of different stages that you may come across in your relationship. Do not worry, these are part of every relationship, it’s just a phase that you will have to cover with courage and belief in yourself and your love.

INITIAL MEETING

You would plan to meet your date in a bar or café or social group or go for a movie date.

It has to start somewhere. Different places will help you know each other better, will help you know about their interests and dislikes. Take a step ahead to talk as much possible and decide if it is to be taken to the next level that is going for further meetings.

THE INFATUATION STAGE

Infatuation means being obsessed about your date, being crazy about them. You know like getting impatient to talk to them. This is the start of a relationship. If there is no feeling of infatuation, my friends, do not think of entering into a relationship. For a relationship to start it requires a simple spark of interest. This stage tell about the chemistry you both share.

THE UNDERSTANDING STAGE

Ok so now you may have started to know each other, late night phone calls, exchanging texts, lovey dovey talks and discussing each other’s interests and fantasies. You talk about each other’s
families, exes, likes and dislikes and other innocent secrets. You may feel the life is perfect, beautiful and so romantic, like LOVE IS IN THE AIR.

THE ROMANCE STAGE

The romance stage is where you fall in love
You fall in love with the person if you are once infatuated towards them. You won’t see their flaws, when you fall in love. The romance stage is where you start being close to your partner physically. You start discovering things like qualities, fantasies, hopes for the future, the possibilities and everything is wonderful, beautiful, fun and exciting. This is the stage where you will take risks and chances and try to please each other.

THE POWER STRUGGLE STAGE

It is the hangover stage. The couples fight for boundaries and clearly defining unacceptable bottom line behaviours. Maximum number of divorce and breakups happen here. It is a painful stage as the couples start falling apart and love feeling is replaced with feelings of disappointment and anger. The focus starts lying on the differences and flaws. You try to change the person who want them to be. Do not lose hope in these struggle stage. Often one partner pulls away needing space. This stucks many couples. The goal should be to establish independence in your relationship without destroying the love between you. Sometimes this stage may last for long, depending on your willingness to it.

THE MOULDING STAGE

Every person has their own personal needs and expectations. In the moulding stage, both the partners try hard to mould each other to fit their own wants in a perfect partner. This stage is a lot about give and take. Both partners try to change their behavior towards the relationship.

THE ADJUSTMENT STAGE

Your behaviour may vary from your partner’s. You both may not think alike. You both need to adjust. This is another “make or break” point in any relationship. Once you lay down all the
opinions openly and everything is said out, then comes the adjustment stage. You both will have to make compromises to find balance and harmony in your relationship. There should always be the spark to meet each other’s need and do not let go the relationship. Don’t be unwilling to compromise.

THE STAGE OF DOUBTS

Whether you are married or you have been in a relationship since years with each other, somewhere along the way doubts may start creeping – in. The intensity of doubts depends on your relationship and the trust you both have on each other. One may start thinking of their past relationships and other prospective partners. When it is the stage of doubts, you start comparing your relationship with other couples and other relationships. You may start wondering now if your relationship would survive this stage? It definitely will, as long as your relationship isn’t monotonous.

THE COMMITMENT STAGE

After going through the various stages, having romance, going through the struggles and doubts, in the end you may feel like fully surrendering the reality that you and your partner are made for each other. Through all this you would learn to love each other and what brings happiness. You choose each other consciously. Despite of all the flaws, you chose each other, knowing all good and bad. You start experiencing a sense of belonging, fun,power and freedom.

THE SEXUAL EXPLORATION

In some couples sex life may prevail in the earlier stages, but trust me if it goes smoothly with time, it will be more beautiful. In this stage your sex life start to play a big role. You may give up on passionate sex till this stage or look for ways to make sex more exciting and thrilling. Make sure
that your sexual interests do not differ, it may end up having an affair. You can find creative ways to make love, you relationship can get better and bring both of you a lot closer.

THE STABLE HAPPINESS STAGE

You have to be mature, stable and adaptive to adjust the needs of your partner. You have been generous enough to compromise. To be stable in your happy love life, face any challenges that come your way at this point. You may experience any or all of these stages. Do not let the dark side of these stages scare you. You are born to love.

LOve HArd!