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Having Ups and Downs in Your Relationship? Things To Start Doing In You Relationship

Ups and Downs in Your Relationship

When you are in a serious relationship, you will have many ups and downs, But talking things over is a better solution than throwing it all away.

Your relationship can affect your personal happiness, so it is important to prioritize relationship. Often small things are given less importance. If you focus on little things it will actually make your relationship stronger and healthy.
Family is someone in your life you need for emotional support. They encourage you to improve in exciting ways. Your family, your loved one’s are one who really matters.
You might not be happy with your present. But surely you can do stuff that will bring happiness to your relationship and to your personal self.

Ups and Downs in Your Relationship
15 things to start doing in a relationship.

Do activities that you both love

Doing activities together will reinforce the compatibility you have with each other. It is like a conditioning required for a healthy relationship. Sharing hobbies and choices will give you a bigger chance to make your relationship an everlasting one.

Let go of those who are already gone

Some people come in your life to stay for always, while others come to teach you lesson. Everyone is not destined to be tied with you. People may leave you when you are of no longer any use to them. Accept the truth and filter out these people. You will be left with some great fellows which you can actually count on. Time will gradually make your realize who the real ones are.

Give a fair chance to people you come across

Everyone has experienced breakdowns that has changed them and forced them to grow. Every one coming in our life are not ordinary, they come in our lives to offer something amazing. Try to judge them and trust your judgment. Do not just block your heart, embrace new relationships. Be ready to learn, accept the challenge and meet someone that might just change your life forever.

Show everyone kindness and respect

People may be rude with you at times, but you are nice, aren’t you? Treat everyone with kindness and respect because you are nice.  Do not define boundaries that define group of people that deserve to be respected. Treat everyone with respect and patience.
Show everyone kindness and respect

Improve on yourself, this will allow time for each of you to have personal space

Are you happy with yourself? If you are not happy with yourself you cannot be happy in a relationship. The important thing is that you should try to improve yourself. You will always be decisive about what and where you are in life. So, work on your passions constantly and your partner will be happy to see your doing towards something. Be supportive to your partner and you can work together towards your ideal shelves.

Be yourself

Find the courage to be your awesome self. This world is trying to make you like everyone else, do not get influenced by negative people.

When people laugh at you, laugh back at them for being like others. Be with those who make you feel confident and make you smile. Be your imperfectly perfect self around them.  Be with those who love u for who you really are.

Be specific in telling them about what you admire about them

Let your partner know what you like about them; compliment them on their appearances, efforts, and accomplishments. Let your partner know exactly what you like about them. It is important to show that you notice the little things about them. Cheer them, show enthusiasm. This will help in building relationship.

Do little things every day for others

Every little thing counts. You can’t be everything to everyone but you can be everything to a few people. You would be the biggest part of their heart, so do those little things that they expect from you.  Come to a decision who these people are in your life and treat them like royalty.

Pay attention to who your real friends are

Pay attention to who your real friends are
Do not count how many friends you have, count the ones who are the real ones. Many people will come in your life, some will enjoy and go, some will laugh with you and laugh at you, but there are a few who will be there till the end. These people are your real friends in life.  They are the ones who matter most, so pay attention to who your real friends are.

Always be loyal

True love isn’t just about being together. It is about two people being true to each other. It should be your priority to remain faithful in a relation.  Loyalty is everything.

Stay in better touch with people who matter to you

Stay in better touch with people who matter to you
A relationship with anyone is measure in affection and not in miles. Do not ignore someone you care about. Stay in touch with those who matter to you. Those who are worth the extra effort, give them that extra dose. Have a number of friends you can be certain of at your all times. Paying attention to these people should be a priority.

Keep your promises and tell the truth

Don’t hide the truth from people whom you love. Tell them the truth up front. Don’t play games with people’s heart. Half truths are no better than lies.  Remember, love and friendship don’t hurt.  Do not mess with someone’s feeling just because you’re unsure of yours. Be open, be honest tell them the truth.

Give what you want to receive

If you are expecting then remember to be willing to give the same. If you want love, give love. If you want friends, be friendly. It really is this simple.  

Allow your partner to take their own decisions

Do not interfere in their life so much that they start ignoring you. Do not judge others by your own past.  What might be good for one person may not be good for another. Allow people to make their own mistakes and their own decisions.

Talk a little less, and listen more

People always doesn’t need advice. They also need a listening ear and some positive encouragement. Some people just need a spark to think what they already are. Help people find directions.

Ignore unconstructive, hurtful commentary

Don’t be hurt from others views about you. Nobody has the right to judge you. There will always be someone to point you on what you do. There will always be someone who thinks differently.  So concentrate on doing what you know in your heart is right. Just focus on what is important for you and how you feel about yourself.

Pay attention to your relationship with yourself

Do not lose yourself in the process of loving others. You are special too. Do what you love and your partner will love you for what you are. Follow your passions, your hobbies and pamper yourself.
Pay attention to your relationship with yourself
Have a relationship where everyone is like, “Damn, they are still together”?
Every person in your life has a role to play and it’s all about how you treat your relationship.
Do things that brings joy to your and your relationship.

How to Set your Relationship Goals – Seeing an Imperfect Person Perfectly

Relationship Goals

What is your relationship asking from you?

You have the right to ask for things you need in relationship and give the things your partner needs. It is your responsibility to be clear about your needs.

Be your own expert.

Only you know what is going in your mind and what your heart wants. Your love won’t know what you want from them in the way of support, quality time, independence, love, financial security and so on.
You might be the happy couple, but are you the perfect couple?
Happy couple is an imperfect couple that knows how to find joy in each other’s differences and bring something special out of every day. A great relationship doesn’t just happen, it requires effort and care to undergo ways that keep both partners content.

Nothing in this world is more difficult than love.

And nothing is more worth it.

Do you want to be the couple that will look at each other with a sparkle in their eyes even after years of togetherness? Be the one your partner would be proud to say how lucky they are to have you.
Every couple that is long lasting will have to go through thick and thin together. It requires effort to have a happy and working relationship.
Have the kind of relationship worth fighting for.
You may be setting goals for everything else, similarly set some goals for nourishing your relationships in the same way. When you take action on them, you’ll find that your leadership has lifted to a higher level than you anticipated.
Below are some important goals all couples should strive towards:
Relationship Goals

Couples who have been together for a good amount of time

Of course it is not reliable to judge every relationship by the period of time they are together for.  But yeah, couples who have crossed the test of time are for sure worth looking up to. Time will decide the love how true it is. If you marry your high school love or you are happy even after years of marriage, you need to be proud of it.

Couples who have been through tough times together

If the time is going good it is not a test for your love, but actual test is how you both handle the hard times. If you will get through the worst of times and remain loyal, then you need to be proud of it.

Couples who have stayed committed and loyal to one another

Be the couple who is committed to its partner and loyal. It is about choosing your partner over anyone else despite of any circumstance.

Couples who argue but always come to a solution

Every couple argues because of different views and disagreements are unavoidable. It is all about what you both do after you have an argument. The result of your argument should be a solution or compromise, is it is so then you are doing great.

Couples who focus on being happy rather than looking happy

You may look cute, romantic or sweet in pictures or at certain events, it does not matter. What matters is the feelings you both have about each other and about what you both have. For long lasting relationship you should be truly happy inside.
happy relationship
In a happy relationship creating goals as a couple is one of the most powerful and relating things you can do.
See where it takes you. Share your success with someone you love.

Goals Keep Your Relationship Thriving

Similar to your career or fitness goals, your relationship can prosper if you give your full attention to it. Create some goals if your relationship has been sluggish.  Involve in self awareness and get involved with your partner to deepen your connection.

Some Common Simple Relationship Goals

Weekly date night: Relationships can sometimes feel ordinary because of your busy life. Get involved in fun and romantic activity on weekly basis. Throughout the busy schedule, at the end of the week look forward for a date night. Dinner dates will bring you both together and have a conversation. You both can participate in your hobbies like hiking, wine tasting or enjoying live music.
Ask about your partner’s day: The first thing to do in relationship is to ask about your partner’s day. Know what is going on in their life. Listen to them with interest. If you don’t ask them about this they will try to get attention from someone else.
Make physical improvements: Motivate your partner to be shaped into someone you would like to see every day. Everyone needs a partner who goes well with their physical appearance. Physical appearance falls among one of the important relationship goals.
RELATIONSHIP
Stay truthful: Couples need to be transparent in everything. Their finances, friends, past relationships and any other problem they have. Cheating on your partner can be a relationship killer.
Notice the little things: Usually in every new relationship every partner notices every bit that makes you smile, laugh, feel curious to spend more time with them. Do not stop loving these things with the lapse of time. Love them for what they are and their every of it.
Every couple should set aside and elaborate their goals as early as possible. Keep a constant review of your relationship goals. Implementing these goals should be a task of both the individual.
Starting a relationship is a big step, make sure you take it carefully and enjoy the little things along the way.

Keeping the Magic Alive – Ways to Make Your Partner Feel Special!!

THE fountains mingle with the river. And the rivers with the ocean. The winds of heaven mix forever. With a sweet emotion. Nothing in the world is single

Do you know the well kept secret is in giving your partner that ignites the feelings? Your partner can’t make you feel alive. It comes from cultivating by learning to attend closely to your inner world. Giving your partner something from your own alive wholeness will unfold a beautiful relationship between you. Giving from the filled-up place inside of you without expectation will transform your relationship. Giving to get love to fill yourself up will not work. Love is to know a person’s face, learn how their eyes flash when they are happy, what makes them sad and how to manage the things together. If you love someone and if you are looking for some special things to do for them, have a look at the ways to make your partner feel special.

Giving from the filled-up place inside of you without expectation will transform your relationship. Giving to get love to fill yourself up will not work. Love is to know a person’s face, learn how their eyes flash when they are happy, what makes them sad and how to manage the things together.

If you love someone and if you are looking for some special things to do for them, have a look at the ways to make your partner feel special.

Give them a handwritten letter

In the field of advancement technology, nobody take time to write letters to each other. But this is something that can boost your partner up. Pen down everything you want to say to your loved one. Express your feelings, be thankful for the way they love you or anything. It will surely leave a special place in their hearts and of course a special memory.

When you get something for yourself, get something for them too

This is something that will make your partner realize that they are valued the same way as you value yourself. It shows you are the one they keep thinking of and keeping you happy is as important as keep them. It is not about the money spent, it is just you thought of them when you were there.  

Cook them their favorite meal and make a feast out of it.

Cook them their favorite meal and make a feast out of it.

Done this before? Probably not. Make the meal from scratch. It isn’t compulsory to make an exotic meal. They will appreciate the gesture whatever you make.  

Take them out on a dinner without any occasion.  

Take them out for a dinner date. Doing the same thing everyday will make your relationship boring. Do not take them for granted and do make efforts to go out and do things together.

Surprise them with something they have always wanted.

Surprise them with something they have always wanted

Notice the things they are longing for, Get them the things they want to have. The greater the surprise element, the more joy it brings.

Encourage your partner’s dreams

If they are confused of taking the big step, encourage them to have confidence in them. Let them know believe in them and that you are there to support them whatever needs to be done to help them make their dream come true.

“Good relationships do not just happen, they take time, patience and two people willing to face any obstacle thrown their way”

Apart from these gestures, there are a few things that should always be there in you relationship when you are with your partner.

Presence: Prioritize your work, but do make it a priority to spend time with them. If they mean something to you, you can make the time. You would have adjust with other things but it will surely be worth it. When you spend time with them you have to be actually present. Stay in the moment, keep your mind free from other things. Drop everything else and focus on being there with your loved ones —  listen, have fun and be present.

Presence

Your Love: This is an obvious point in the list, tell them that you love them. Show them you love them, in your actions every day. Hugs, intimacy, smiles just little things that mean a lot.

Your Compassion: Compassion is finding empathy with someone you love. Show compassion with love. How is this different than giving the gift of your love? See things from their eyes, try to understand what they’re going through and to make them happier.

Magic alive

A Voice: Pay attention to what the day and you will give more than any expensive gift. Listen to them and show your interest towards what they want to discuss with you. Show respect to them by conveying that what they feel is important for you. By giving a person a voice, and showing that their words matter, will have a long-lasting different in their lives and your relationship.

A Healthy Lifestyle: Do some fun activity that is healthy, while you spend quality time with them. Go on a hike, play a sport, toss around a Frisbee, go for a walk or jog and so on. Try to eat healthy foods. Make the habit of good health a part of your lifestyle, and encourage your loved ones to do the same.

Your Belief in Them: It will make a huge difference to them if you show them that you believe in them. Do this with the loved ones in your life. They need your support. Support their dreams and passions and hobbies. Participate with them.Guide them. Be the encouragement. Support them when they lose spirit. It is very important to them that you believe in them.  

Be creative, be fun, be lively. Let your partner know they are special to you. Give your partner a million happy little moments with you and they will return the same. The more special you do, the more content the couple is.