THE fountains mingle with the river. And the rivers with the ocean. The winds of heaven mix forever. With a sweet emotion. Nothing in the world is single

Do you know the well kept secret is in giving your partner that ignites the feelings? Your partner can’t make you feel alive. It comes from cultivating by learning to attend closely to your inner world. Giving your partner something from your own alive wholeness will unfold a beautiful relationship between you. Giving from the filled-up place inside of you without expectation will transform your relationship. Giving to get love to fill yourself up will not work. Love is to know a person’s face, learn how their eyes flash when they are happy, what makes them sad and how to manage the things together. If you love someone and if you are looking for some special things to do for them, have a look at the ways to make your partner feel special.

Giving from the filled-up place inside of you without expectation will transform your relationship. Giving to get love to fill yourself up will not work. Love is to know a person’s face, learn how their eyes flash when they are happy, what makes them sad and how to manage the things together.

If you love someone and if you are looking for some special things to do for them, have a look at the ways to make your partner feel special.

Give them a handwritten letter

In the field of advancement technology, nobody take time to write letters to each other. But this is something that can boost your partner up. Pen down everything you want to say to your loved one. Express your feelings, be thankful for the way they love you or anything. It will surely leave a special place in their hearts and of course a special memory.

When you get something for yourself, get something for them too

This is something that will make your partner realize that they are valued the same way as you value yourself. It shows you are the one they keep thinking of and keeping you happy is as important as keep them. It is not about the money spent, it is just you thought of them when you were there.  

Cook them their favorite meal and make a feast out of it.

Done this before? Probably not. Make the meal from scratch. It isn’t compulsory to make an exotic meal. They will appreciate the gesture whatever you make.  

Take them out on a dinner without any occasion.  

Take them out for a dinner date. Doing the same thing everyday will make your relationship boring. Do not take them for granted and do make efforts to go out and do things together.

Surprise them with something they have always wanted.

Notice the things they are longing for, Get them the things they want to have. The greater the surprise element, the more joy it brings.

Encourage your partner’s dreams

If they are confused of taking the big step, encourage them to have confidence in them. Let them know believe in them and that you are there to support them whatever needs to be done to help them make their dream come true.

“Good relationships do not just happen, they take time, patience and two people willing to face any obstacle thrown their way”

Apart from these gestures, there are a few things that should always be there in you relationship when you are with your partner.

Presence: Prioritize your work, but do make it a priority to spend time with them. If they mean something to you, you can make the time. You would have adjust with other things but it will surely be worth it. When you spend time with them you have to be actually present. Stay in the moment, keep your mind free from other things. Drop everything else and focus on being there with your loved ones —  listen, have fun and be present.

Your Love: This is an obvious point in the list, tell them that you love them. Show them you love them, in your actions every day. Hugs, intimacy, smiles just little things that mean a lot.

Your Compassion: Compassion is finding empathy with someone you love. Show compassion with love. How is this different than giving the gift of your love? See things from their eyes, try to understand what they’re going through and to make them happier.

A Voice: Pay attention to what the day and you will give more than any expensive gift. Listen to them and show your interest towards what they want to discuss with you. Show respect to them by conveying that what they feel is important for you. By giving a person a voice, and showing that their words matter, will have a long-lasting different in their lives and your relationship.

A Healthy Lifestyle: Do some fun activity that is healthy, while you spend quality time with them. Go on a hike, play a sport, toss around a Frisbee, go for a walk or jog and so on. Try to eat healthy foods. Make the habit of good health a part of your lifestyle, and encourage your loved ones to do the same.

Your Belief in Them: It will make a huge difference to them if you show them that you believe in them. Do this with the loved ones in your life. They need your support. Support their dreams and passions and hobbies. Participate with them.Guide them. Be the encouragement. Support them when they lose spirit. It is very important to them that you believe in them.  

Be creative, be fun, be lively. Let your partner know they are special to you. Give your partner a million happy little moments with you and they will return the same. The more special you do, the more content the couple is.