What is your relationship asking from you?

You have the right to ask for things you need in relationship and give the things your partner needs. It is your responsibility to be clear about your needs.

Be your own expert.

Only you know what is going in your mind and what your heart wants. Your love won’t know what you want from them in the way of support, quality time, independence, love, financial security and so on.
You might be the happy couple, but are you the perfect couple?
Happy couple is an imperfect couple that knows how to find joy in each other’s differences and bring something special out of every day. A great relationship doesn’t just happen, it requires effort and care to undergo ways that keep both partners content.

Nothing in this world is more difficult than love.

And nothing is more worth it.

Do you want to be the couple that will look at each other with a sparkle in their eyes even after years of togetherness? Be the one your partner would be proud to say how lucky they are to have you.
Every couple that is long lasting will have to go through thick and thin together. It requires effort to have a happy and working relationship.
Have the kind of relationship worth fighting for.
You may be setting goals for everything else, similarly set some goals for nourishing your relationships in the same way. When you take action on them, you’ll find that your leadership has lifted to a higher level than you anticipated.
Below are some important goals all couples should strive towards:

Couples who have been together for a good amount of time

Of course it is not reliable to judge every relationship by the period of time they are together for.  But yeah, couples who have crossed the test of time are for sure worth looking up to. Time will decide the love how true it is. If you marry your high school love or you are happy even after years of marriage, you need to be proud of it.

Couples who have been through tough times together

If the time is going good it is not a test for your love, but actual test is how you both handle the hard times. If you will get through the worst of times and remain loyal, then you need to be proud of it.

Couples who have stayed committed and loyal to one another

Be the couple who is committed to its partner and loyal. It is about choosing your partner over anyone else despite of any circumstance.

Couples who argue but always come to a solution

Every couple argues because of different views and disagreements are unavoidable. It is all about what you both do after you have an argument. The result of your argument should be a solution or compromise, is it is so then you are doing great.

Couples who focus on being happy rather than looking happy

You may look cute, romantic or sweet in pictures or at certain events, it does not matter. What matters is the feelings you both have about each other and about what you both have. For long lasting relationship you should be truly happy inside.

In a happy relationship creating goals as a couple is one of the most powerful and relating things you can do.
See where it takes you. Share your success with someone you love.

Goals Keep Your Relationship Thriving

Similar to your career or fitness goals, your relationship can prosper if you give your full attention to it. Create some goals if your relationship has been sluggish.  Involve in self awareness and get involved with your partner to deepen your connection.

Some Common Simple Relationship Goals

Weekly date night: Relationships can sometimes feel ordinary because of your busy life. Get involved in fun and romantic activity on weekly basis. Throughout the busy schedule, at the end of the week look forward for a date night. Dinner dates will bring you both together and have a conversation. You both can participate in your hobbies like hiking, wine tasting or enjoying live music.
Ask about your partner’s day: The first thing to do in relationship is to ask about your partner’s day. Know what is going on in their life. Listen to them with interest. If you don’t ask them about this they will try to get attention from someone else.
Make physical improvements: Motivate your partner to be shaped into someone you would like to see every day. Everyone needs a partner who goes well with their physical appearance. Physical appearance falls among one of the important relationship goals.

Stay truthful: Couples need to be transparent in everything. Their finances, friends, past relationships and any other problem they have. Cheating on your partner can be a relationship killer.
Notice the little things: Usually in every new relationship every partner notices every bit that makes you smile, laugh, feel curious to spend more time with them. Do not stop loving these things with the lapse of time. Love them for what they are and their every of it.
Every couple should set aside and elaborate their goals as early as possible. Keep a constant review of your relationship goals. Implementing these goals should be a task of both the individual.
Starting a relationship is a big step, make sure you take it carefully and enjoy the little things along the way.