One of the most exciting, rewarding and scariest thing to do is falling in love. Once you are in love with someone, it becomes difficult to live without them. You were even alive when you didn’t met them.
It is very important to build an attachment for a healthy relationship. Staying in a relationship is often based on satisfaction and to feel good in the presence of another person.
A staying power of relationship depends on mutual investment and determination along with commitment.
Love involves passion, security and emotional comfort. Both the partners should be committed to each other with one’s cultural and social contexts to be with that person.
Here are some questions to help you sort out whether you are in love or not:
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Are you suddenly doing new things?
As people fall in love, they start doing things that their partner favors. They often do something different from the normal. 
You would find yourself trying out new cuisines, New dresses, footwears, doing new activities, watching new kind of movies etc. People after falling in love grow more on self concepts and are more self confident.
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Everything reminds you of him
Whether you’re walking around, or shopping or eating at a restaurant or you see a cafe, you wish your partner was there with you. 
Everywhere you go you think about them. It’s a strange feeling you never had felt before.they just strike your mind randomly.
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Your appetite shrinks
Have you felt like getting butterflies in your stomach when you see the one you love or you like them? This is a common sign to tell if you are in love.
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Have you been especially stressed lately?
You might feel tensed, anxious or jittery when you are about to meet them. 
These are a normal response to the stress of repeated social encounters with someone for whole you feel, whose impression matters to you strongly.
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He/ she is perfect
People when fall in love, they start considering all the positive qualities of them, ignoring the negative ones. 
If you start daydreaming or thinking if events in which you both are playing the role, you are definitely in LoVe.
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How intense are your emotions?
When love is budding, people get attached very soon,they tend to experience a high degree of passion. Though everyone has a different experience of falling in love, but many gets this feeling of emotional attachment.
if you have adult attachment orientations,you are likely to get attached easily with much less intensity.
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Are you tempted to say, “I love you”?
A sure sign of romantic interest, some people are more hesitant to utter these three words than others. 
Although people might imagine that women are the first to utter it, though, research tells that men say “I love you” first. They also tend to fall in love faster.
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Are you investing more in this person?
If you are investing enough in the person, all the time, energy, emotions etc., it is the hallmark of successful couples. People who fall in love are likely to increase their investment in the other person, connecting their lives together in a way that might endorse commitment and stability. Whether you have been in a relationship for years or months or just found the one, how do you know if you are with the right person? Are you dating the right person?
It can be hard to tell sometimes, it can be a good experience or a bad experience.
Some people get to know after years that it is not the right person for them. Life is about meeting people, meeting new people and getting apart from the old ones. You get involved, you fall in love, you throw caution to the wind, and you wind up spending a few too long with someone who is not the right match for you.
Here are some points that can help you find, whether you are with the right person or no
You don’t want to change them.
Maybe you don’t like their profession. Maybe they are not humorous or they are a lot humorous, which you do not like. Maybe you start thinking of them in some different look, different hairstyle and skin type. Whatever the criteria is, if you are assuming them to be like someone else other than exactly the way they are, you’re probably with the wrong person.
In fact, if it is the good match for you, you will support them in their all endeavors; accept them for who they are, how they look and how they talk. If you are not ready to accept them, how can you love them totally?
You’re prepared to let minor things go.
If you are with the right person in the right relationship, you will probably not speak much about the unimportant small things that bothers you about your partner.
If it is the right person, you would adjust with them on little things knowing that it would destroy your good relationship. A person’s actions are part of what make them who they are. If you are not happy, anything can become a problem
You don’t really care about “looking good.”
If it is a chance to meet the person, you do not care about how you are looking.
They would invite you to meet up them with their friends and you are in weird clothes. It won’t matter as you are getting to spend the afternoon together.
You Think Long-Term.
When you start thinking of your future with them, you are with the right person. You can imagine being with them for any number of years. You know each other’s family and you are eager to meet them as soon as possible. 
The two of you discuss issues such as marriage, children, and where to live. You are ready to make compromises, and you feel comfortable with the pace at which it is progressing.
For a relationship to go on smoothly you need to know yourself to able to know if someone else is right for you.
It is like a conditioning required for a healthy relationship. Sharing hobbies and choices will give you a bigger chance to make your relationship an everlasting one. 
Accept the truth and filter out these people. You will be left with some great fellows which you can actually count on. Time will gradually make your realize who the real ones are.
Be ready to learn, accept the challenge and meet someone that might just change your life forever.
The important thing is that you should try to improve yourself. You will always be decisive about what and where you are in life. So, work on your passions constantly and your partner will be happy to see your doing towards something. Be supportive to your partner and you can work together towards your ideal shelves.
Cheer them, show enthusiasm. This will help in building relationship.
Remember, love and friendship don’t hurt. Do not mess with someone’s feeling just because you’re unsure of yours. Be open, be honest tell them the truth.
What might be good for one person may not be good for another. Allow people to make their own mistakes and their own decisions.
So concentrate on doing what you know in your heart is right. Just focus on what is important for you and how you feel about yourself.
If you marry your high school love or you are happy even after years of marriage, you need to be proud of it.
If you will get through the worst of times and remain loyal, then you need to be proud of it.
It is all about what you both do after you have an argument. The result of your argument should be a solution or compromise, is it is so then you are doing great.
Involve in self awareness and get involved with your partner to deepen your connection.
Throughout the busy schedule, at the end of the week look forward for a date night. Dinner dates will bring you both together and have a conversation. You both can participate in your hobbies like hiking, wine tasting or enjoying live music.
