So you’re relationship has been going great, you’ve been having a good time together. You both have completely fallen for each other.You both like each other like really. But you are not able to stop yourself from questioning everything.
Lovers, what are you doing? You are in a new relationship; you’re excited, happy and also worried, maybe because you’ve read one too many magazine articles about relationships. Many positive and negative things are in your mind, and you start overthinking and over observing your relationship.
Once overanalyzing starts, it’s hard to stop. Taking the most harmless instance and turning them into something insane, is where starts overanalyzing. Social media is another instance that has introduces into this bad habit.
There is only one happiness in this life: To love and be loved
It’s not productive, folks.
Couples in long-term relationships do the same thing. Plenty of couples have a fight because of many meaningless issues. So take a deep breath before having an insight over the following instances. Maybe it will help to recognize the behavior and you would try to avoid it.
Saying, “I Like You.”
If you have been seen each other since just a while and you like the person, it shouldn’t be scary to say “ I like you”. Maybe your partner would also be feeling the same and would be hesitating to say it out.
Canceling Plans
If you have planned to meet and something important comes up, just say that you can’t come. You partner will understand if they are into you.
Saying What You Want
Give your suggestions or ideas on what you want to do, what you want to eat, where you want to go etc. A man expects his woman to have good taste. Feel free to tell your date what you want to do.
Being Straight-Forward about health issues
You’re both not in middle school, share with each other about any health issues. Girls should be open about their period cycle and a man should acknowledge it well.
If You’re Starting to Get Serious
Tell them that you miss them. Share with them how you feel, that you are thinking of them. They might be feeling the same.
Telling Them You Need Some Alone Time
If you want to be left alone, eat alone in a cafe, tell them. It happens with everybody and your partner would understand it completely.
Occasionally Mentioning an Ex
The emphasis is on the word “occasionally.” You can talk about your ex to make your love
jealous. But be careful not to spoil your relationship by frequently mentioning about it.
Asking friends for their advice
Your partner does something weird and you turn to your friends for an advice.
By this you are just making a mess. Stop asking all of your friends, it will just give a pile of conflicting opinions. You will be just left with confused mind. If you have to ask, ask one trusted friend and leave it at that.
Making assumptions
If your partner replied a bit late or just gave a small reply to your big message, do not think much. They might be stuck somewhere or busy. You are not made to judge every little thing.
What you are is what your partner wants
You must have done that? Have you ever changed something according to your partners
requirements? It’s actually pathetic, but everybody does it. 
And that’s silly, because they’re dating you for a reason: they like you, just the way you are.
Future always bother you
It is a little natural to think of the future. But do not get obsessed with it. Just live in the present and let things happen as they may. Of course, if you see no future, let them go. 
Other than that, just enoy the present; don’t worry about whether you have long term compatibility or not.
Changing Your Profile Picture
Public display of affection is just to tell your friends, ex and relatives that you need them to know that you have found someone. 
Changing your Facebook profile picture is a bit more subtle, and more adorable.
Introducing them to Your Family
Both the individuals in relationship should get them introduced to each other’s family. 
It would be quite weird in the starting and scary, but this is something that will bring you both closer to each other. Make them your family and priority.
Past relationships
You or your partner both would be having a past, particularly a long past or of short span. So what if you partner was on a serious relationship before. Do not overnalyze the things and trouble your mind spoiling your good relationship. What matters is that you trust the person now. Do not create issues by fearing of past relationships.
Don’t freak out, lovers. Life happens. Love happens. The more people you date, the more overlap there will be. But once you are in a relationship give it your best. Do not stress your mind by overanalyzing useless things. Let it go and love utmost.
